My SBs have been mostly in the 30-35 age bracket and we have found a lot of common ground on activities, music and cultural references. During my latest slump I was able to get in touch with a 21-year-old who is interested in this lifestyle but has had no experience so far (long story but not through Seeking). We had a good M&G and agreed on PPM and she's ready for BCD. I think she's a keeper, I just don't want to blow it or scare her off. While we had a good conversation I think there's a bigger cultural gap that I'm accustomed to.
Just asking the brethren for any special tips in dealing with the younger end of the SB population and especially those just starting the lifestyle.

1. Be clear about expectations.  Tell her you think she's great and you want something long term
2. Talk about the culture gap.  Don't be afraid to ask her and she shouldn't be afraid to ask you.  It can be fun sharing so make it that way.
3. Fuck her well.  I'm serious on this.  She's probably used to guys her age who have no idea what they are doing.  It will be a low bar and bring your A game.
4. Treat her like a young girlfriend.  She doesn't know the difference.  Tell her how good she looks.  Her hair, makeup, clothes, even compliment her figure.  She's got more social media time than anyone should and she's probably got body issues.  Make her feel good.

Congrats on the 21 year old Scaramouche! I think Netnoy has given some good tips here. Personally I wouldn't discuss your differences as this could only point out to her incompatibilities. I'd stress what you have in common, perhaps food, or values you both share. I'd also not waste any time getting to the BCD as she might change her mind. The sooner you can get into the intimacy part of this the better... too much time to think about it she might get cold feet since she's not experienced. Good luck! PS: Don't lay out too many rules, keep it flexible so she feels comfortable, but set firm  boundaries in terms of PPM as some of the really young ones without experience and no cash management skills want to hit you up for advances, loans, 'my car payment is due,' etc. Do not even start going down this road. [becoming the white night -ATM-Daddy].  

3. Fuck her well.
4. Tell her how good she looks.  Her hair, makeup, clothes, even compliment her figure.  She's got more social media time than anyone should and she's probably got body issues.  Make her feel good.

SB's may leave you for a lot of reasons, most typically around a bigger wallet. We've had ample discussion around why they bail.  But we rarely talk about what makes an SB stay.  

 
First, as netnoy advised, make damn sure she gets off first and often.  Shouldn't be a problem for you, but in case it's not obvious, get down there and relish every moment of that fresh, tight pussy.  Most guys her age will typically try to go for the BJ then penetration in hopes of getting off before she changes her mind (i.e.: sobers up).  At best some guys will spend just enough time for them to check the pussy eating box and then move on.  So indulge your appetites and work hard enough to keep her happy. When she starts to scream and pull your hair, you are heading in the right direction

 
Next, listen better than you talk.  We never stop learning, no matter how old we are.  Take a genuine interest in her interests, experiences, culture, etc., and ask her questions. Learn from her. She will indirectly notice it and it will help reinforce her self-esteem when she is with you. Again, most guys her age are generally expressing full-blown misogyny and will try assert some bullshit alpha-male dominance.  You want her heading home after a date thinking you are a really good guy who understands her without being a simp.  Just remember that being nice does not equal being weak.  Always be nice, but never be weak.  

 
Next, take mental notes on what she talks about, then do some research later. Google is your friend. She won't expect you to be up-to-speed on the latest Rave trends, but she will be impressed when you make a comment or observation about something she mentioned during a past meeting.  

 
Finally, admit when you are a (cultural) fish out of water. Lying will just make you look fake. So be authentic and use that admission to ask her questions about what interests her and why.  

 
As I implied at the top, SB's start an arrangement for the money. (I've never met a POT who was only trying to fuck guys over 60, or 70, or...) SB's stay in an arrangement when doing so makes them feel valued, appreciated, capable and empowered.  SB's leave when they get bored, feel like a whore (unless she's into that), and of course when a significantly better financial opportunity comes around. But if they are happy with you, they are much less likely to LOOK for a significantly better financial opportunity.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Others have already said what needs to be said but here is few extra pointers  

— don’t make her feel embarrassed to be w an older man — means play along w  her tastes etc but don’t be a total pushover — don’t be stuffy but also don’t try to  pretend to be someone you are not  

 — pay extra attention to hygiene etc - use a good deo but nothing too strong - this goes w anyone, but young uns especially pick up on if you have an “ old person smell”

— know that at that age, whatever this is, is most likely temporary— so enjoy while you can — this is imp — if she is up for an overnight trip where you can fulfil your fantasies - drop other stuff and make it happen — postponed events usually end up never happening  

-  have less  “ego “” — she will do things that may feel like modest insults here and there but some of it is cultural — keep your “eye on the prize” which is sex with a tight-body hottie — I have had 3 in this age range  (20-23) last few years and nothing  else compares — esp if you get a chance to go bare (after verifying you are both clear via tests)

Golden advice from Herb! I concur with all, especially the part about making sure she gets off first and if possible, often. This is best achieved through cunnilingus, in my view, which is an art onto itself. Every vagina is a bit different, and every girl responds in various different ways to different stimuli. Learn her cues and she will [hopefully] have great appreciation and will reward you for your efforts and understanding.

Thanks all for the helpful comments. I know those things but it's nice to be reminded.

We got together and... she turns out to be a firecracker in bed! Not the shrinking violet I was expecting and very into sex.
So a lot of fun. At the same time it's not the same as with my 30-somethings SBs, and I feel the gap differently. With the others I could see myself walking down the street with "my girlfriend" and that's not the case here, this one is clearly candy (although we do have good, intelligent conversations too). But hard to see a deeper long-term thing.

Not saying one is better than the other,they're just different. In fact I am thinking of exploring more of the under-25 group based on this experince. My sense is that they can be less complicated and more willing to be a pure SB who might want some quick fun and cash, while the older group may be looking for a more stable kind of sugar relationship. A bit of both can be good.

As the old saying goes, "Variety is the spice of love". Taste all of life's pleasures in all of its forms.  

... the age gap is a bigger issue for you than it is for her.  

 
Something to think about... for a minute. Then enjoy that sweet young pussy.

 
Look at it this way: she is the amazing, hot, popular ultra-babe you could never date when you were in college.  Well, class is back in session, and you have the best kind of homework assignment ever!  

 
As for your comfort "walking down the street," consider this based on my experiences dating SB's between 18 and 25 (I am 62 now):  The men who see you will be jealous and mad that they cannot do the same (due to wife, funds or both). The women who see you will also be jealous and mad that they can no longer "pull" the kind of attention (and funds) you are giving to her.  They may TRY to throw off the "what a creep" vibe at you... but inside.... envy reigns.  

 
If you really want to explore the varied range of in-public reactions, try dating a different race. Some of my biggest reactions came when I (White, 6'1" over 300 lbs.), was dating a 21-year-old, 4'11", 98 lb. black spinner.  Walking through the food court at a local mall was... memorable. And after that, we went back to my place and fucked like crazy for the next 3 hours.  The "Daddy, please, please, please, PLEASE fill me with your cum!" vibe was amazing.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Good tips

Guys, I've been offline for several days, just returned and found such a wealth of info from y'all about dating in LV and this thread about younger SBs.  Truly, anybody who wants to up their sugaring game should be on here and reading a lot!  I feel privileged to be a regular here and learn and offer my own 2cents.

 As far as this thread goes, I have many experiences with the 18-25 yo age group.  And I have occasionally asked my established younger SBs the same question that "mouche asked:  Why did you choose to have an arrangement with me?  What made you pick me and stay with me for years?  Here's what my favorite-ever young SB replied.  "It's because you treated me like a person from the very first time we met for drinks, and not like a piece of meat.  And you listened to my stories."  We had a deep emotional connection for 2 1/2 years after that first M&G, and for a very modest ppm.  So just be real with them!