I've had two runs on Seeking and on a  whim have just started on Secret Benefits.  Just to compare.  My concern with SecretBenies is that the system (pay points to unlock conversations) would temp them to rig the system to have girls contact guys who actually have no interest in following through.   So my cynical side is suspecting that I'll gets lots of come on messages and then no replies once I fork over the points to unlock.

My plan is here to only respond if they message me first (and my bio is as bare bones as possible.)  

They ran a special many months ago for a thousand credits for around a hundred bucks or so, so I bit. Like you I NEVER message a POT SB on that site first and I ONLY respond to local and "hot" POT SB's that message me first. I will however "favorite" a hottie who is nearby and who catches my eye in the hopes that I will get her attention and that it will elicit a message from her.

 
I just checked my account and I am down to 360 credits,  which at ten credits for each POT SB that I have started a conversation with means I have spoken with 64 different POT SB's since I bought those 1,000 credit. So far I have met ZERO of them that I have met through that site. I know the site does have legitimate SB's because I have seen several profiles on SB that were of women I have actually met and have gone BCD with, but who I met "first" on SA.

 
I agree that the system is almost certainly rigged in the manner of which you speak. I look at it this way, I have 36 more opportunities to see if my money was thrown away or not.  The good news of course is that we are talking so little money and I have had several conversations that did at least lead to moving to text that I don't feel like I was "ripped off" but if I my remaining 360 don't lead to at least a meeting with a girl that I would not have found anyhow on SA, that will be the last money that site gets from me.

On any given evening it was nothing to blast out 10 messages on SA. I didn't track it, but a meetup would probably take an average of 30-50 cold calls.  Since they cost nothing incrementally, it was a workable strategy.

You could easily spend a few hundred bucks in just a few days and end up with NOTHING for your efforts, not to mention your money. lol

 
I don't have that luxury in the little city of about 100,000 people that I live in, even expanding my search to fifty miles I am still only talking maybe 200,000 in total population and as far as POT SB's go, after filtering out OTHFB's I am left with maybe 300 total POT SB's within fifty miles of me. Unless I want to be left fucking the same two girls over and over, I am forced to play a different game where I raise my "closing average". Now when I extend my search out to include Dallas, I have thousands and thousands of POT SB's to choose from and I become very picky, especially since it's over a two hour drive to Dallas and I am not driving two hours for "average" pussy. lol

I bought 100 credits for $60. It costs 10 credits to start a convo. First chick managed to get her text number but if she answers anything it's just a word or two. Second chick is probably just a cam girl. Too early to tell, but that's my instinct. Third chick sounds submissive, waiting on her first reply. All three contacted me first.

Second chick was a cam girl. 1, 3 and 4 are radio silent. Nothing unusual if this were SA as I'd just blast out another dozen cold calls. SB isn't likely to get my repeat biz.

I did the same yesterday - more just to test the waters.  I mean the money is nothing...but it's appearing so are the girls  LOL

I was down to my last 20 credits, and spent it on another unlikely candidate.  Just then an offer popped up that was good for like 5 minutes with a clock ticking down ... basically 1000 or 2000 credits for half price (they take away the intro 100 credits option after you sign up.) Well I knew I wasn't going to score with the first 100 credits, so I took the 1000 credits option.  Want to give it a fair shot.  I get lot of initial messages which cost 10 credits to unlock, then convo is free thereafter with that person.

So I did get a txt number from one black chick so we could discuss terms.  I made my usual offer ... she lol'd and said "This pussy is $15,000."   I think she was serious.

In my area the girls are about 70% Hispanic and fairly low level at that.  Had a girl agreeing to meet, but at the last minute requested some money to prove I was serious HaHa.  A couple more interested, but they never seem to log on.  I burned though my 100 credits in about 3 days and will not be renewing.

Got a date next week with the first SB I contacted. She's obviously a semi-pro.  And also a lesbian, so that will be a new experience.

On one side of the scale are the lipstick lesbians who are among the most "open minded" women on the planet, and of course on the other end of the spectrum are the Bull Dykes which merit no further discussion.

 
I hope your semi pro turns out to be a lipstick lesbian and not a bull dyke, or a Hillary Clinton, complete with pants suit. lol

The lez was pro like in getting down to biz. So it turned out well.  Very outspoken liberal. But I'm not there for the intellect, so I don't care.  She was a screamer.

I couldn't care less about the politics of the women I only fuck.

 
I used to enjoy a little political debate with liberal women, but that was before politics turned so ugly, you simply can't disagree with ANYONE with TDS, fortunately most of my SB's aren't "outspoken" liberals so I usually just steer clear of politics as a topic of conversation. There are a lot of libs however that as so full of hatred that even the mention of Trump makes their eyes glaze over with hate and anyone who doesn't think like them is immediately labeled as a Nazi, a racist, or worse. I just steer clear of that type completely.  

 
That does remind me of something though. I am sure we all know what "rodeo sex" is. For those who don't, it's when you get your wife in Doggy, you whisper in her ear that her sister is hotter than her and then you try not to get bucked off for 8 seconds. lol Maybe I will try it with one of these liberal girls, only I will be "Make America Great Again" that I whisper in her ear. ROFL.  

One of those type of chicks who contacts you then tells you you're too old.  When I asked if she really only pinged me to tell me I was too old, she shot back that there was no way she'd ever be interested. Weird people.

Possibly fin-dom. Didn't continue conversation to find out.

Activity has been on the back burner until this week, where I dealt with two chicks.  I actually had a public meet with the first one a couple weeks ago.  She was eager.  She was also begging for money.  She was in her early thirties (I know some of you think that is too old, but I don't really have age limits.)  She smelled like a three alarm fire in a tobacco factory. I met her the day she got kicked out of her half-way house (or so she claimed.)  Yeah red flags ... hell, red flashing lights.  She needed money, she needed a place to stay.  She begged.  Said she was afraid she'd go back on drugs.  It's possible it was all a con to get a handout.  But it seemed legit ... and also a good reason to get away, and get away fast.  Hate to turn my back on humanity, but I can't save them all.  The final thing she asked for was money to put her up in a hotel for a month.  I said goodbye.

The second chick looked super fit in her pictures.  Our conversation ... me: I'm about the sex. her: I like sex too.  me:here's my text number.  her:lets get together soon.  my name is ...   me-- googles her name ... she's a champion bikini class body builder with pics from the last couple contests. me: let's meet at this hotel here's my offer.  her: yes.   She's prompt.  She's the girl in the pics, but she doesn't look ripped muscular (which I wasn't looking for anyhow) just super fit, attractive, petite.  Her age class in the contest website was about 15 years older than what she put in her SB bio making her in her early 40's but she really could pass for someone in their late 20's or early 30's.  But as I say, age isn't a big factor for me.  

Turns out she is a fitness nut, teaches fitness classes (probably why she moonlights as a SB, can't be good pay in that line of work.)    So anyhow, now I can add a fitness model to my conquests.  I don't think she is a pro, but could be very successful because of her looks and discipline.  Incredibly easy to deal with and no drama.    I plan to see her again.

Wow, sounds like you hit both ends of the spectrum!  Glad you escaped from the first one unscathed!