Between the girl and hotel its more expensive  yhan pros. Plus sooner or later you will get stoid up.

$71 for parking is crazy.

 
Bid for hotel rooms on Priceline.   I can usually get a 3 star room for $75 including tax, and I don't pay for parking.   This is outside of Boston.

 
If parking is such a problem, consider taking Uber.   That may be cheaper.

I don’t think it matters where you meet, especially with established SBs. One of my married business partners rented a cheap apartment in a relatively safe area. It was cheaper per date than hotel rooms over time.

but most of my Sugar Dating takes place in my nice cozy RV. I've been very active this year, but I only booked a hotel room exactly once! The RV is portable and the girls seem to love it. I've found lots of places to park it for an hour or three, no problem.  Some of my SBs meet me where I've parked, others prefer if I pick them up first.  The RV is very private, very discreet,  and even at 8mpg costs alot less than a hotel room. Plus I don't worry about wasted money if I get a no show or late cancellation. I do realize this is not a practical solution for everybody, but you asked for suggestions!

I think SBs differ a lot on hotel room preferences based on my experience. Some would be happy to do it in their dorm rooms if they didn't have roommates or at home if they weren't married (but I always bring all of them to nice restaurants). I had one say that one of her roommates sugared and the two others were interested in doing it; she said that she wouldn't mind doing it in her dorm if I didn't mind being watched/heard by the others. Unfortunately, we never got to BCD.  

For others, a huge part of the experience is the nice hotels and Michelin-starred restaurants. Especially for the younger SBs, this is playing at being a grown-up sophisticated courtesan or trophy wife. A few of them have wedding bands from me just to further the image. Some of this group of SBs would probably have done it for free just for the hotels and restaurants.

Given that you are married, think about the paper trail you are leaving with hotel bookings or AirBnB. My wife almost never checks credit card statement, but I got in trouble with her when she noticed local hotel charges on a bill when she did. There is pretty much only one reason that you would have a hotel room in your own home town. She demanded ten years of credit card and bank statements and had me create a new private account for her with a substantial transfer from our joint account. Now, for SBs, I book the hotel on their website (with a credit card of course), but then settle the bill in cash.

I'm in a similar situation. Married and have fun with my SB(s) near my house in a hotel. Of late, I have been using the app recharge where you book the rooms on an hour basis and you can do it at the last minute. I book for about 3 hours ( around the time I spend in the hotel anyways) and it costs around $90 to $ 110 with processing fees. If I book it conventionally, it used to cost me on an average of $200 and sometimes if it was last minute, $350 plus. Best part is, my latest steady SB is the one who suggested it.

Problem is it works only in the bigger cities for now. I'm in the Bay area and even here only a few hotels in the city, and some of the bigger suburbs participate. I'm hoping with time, more hotels will participate and it gets easier, but there are some logistics to that.

If you are someone who can meet your SBs only during daytime BCD, this will work best for you.

Happy Sugaring!!

I have really high status wii Marriott rewards and they almost always allow 4 pm checkout. I’ve been able to use rooms twice easily as a result. Once the night before and once the following afternoon. Per session, this is pretty great.