The Erotic Highway

LG......... Your advice is sooooooo hard to take sometimes.
ready.2.explode 8893 reads
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I am a middle aged guy who is what I guess you could call overly preoccupied with anything sexual. My problem is not simple, I am one of the guys who is plagued by your description of delayed ejaculation.
I read a positive response on this board lately where you recommended not touching yourself for 40 to 60 days before engaging in a sexual encounter with another. Sounded like useful advise.
I am traveling alone on vacation in a few weeks and decided that I would take your advice. For two weeks now I have tried my hardest to keep pure thoughts. My wife never considers initiating sex so I am safe there, but I admit that it is difficult to ignore her when she parades around in front of me in the nude. This is tough, but so far so good.
I have a little more than two weeks to go before I get to take my final exam (already have a partner lined up). I know that 30 days may NOT be enough time to realize great news but it is all the time that I have to work with.

Thought I would thank you in advance for your wisdom and advise.

Where can I get some salt peter ????


Well, at least that was the rumor when I was in Boot Camp. Whether it was that or just staying busy to the point of exhaustion, it worked.

got just about every kind of pussy on the planet.

Of course I was not stuck on or in a tin can.....

Yup, they really did put salt peter in the food when you were in boot camp. They also used to use salt peter on submarines, but I don't know if they still do that.

That is a bunch of crap about salt peter in boot camp.  Don't know if you paid attention, but the drill instructors eat the same show we recruits eat in boot camp (at least in the Corp they did) and we had the same urban legend that there was salt peter in the chow.  I don't think the DIs would have eaten our chow if there was salt peter in it. Shear exhaustion kept our peters from rising during boot camp. Can't comment about the subs - it would seem to make sense on a sub.

My humble advice is to get rid of your porno, any other sexual stimulation you might have or at least put it somewhere where you have to work to get it.  My biggest problem in restraining myself is looking at porn just because and then stimulating myself.

hope that helps

TheLoveGoddess7219 reads

Are you kidding, ready2.explode?

You HAVE a salt peter...between your legs;-). And you need to desalinate it for another few weeks before the exam, LOL.

I must say that on some level, it seems to be working - you are excited by your "parading wife," which, paradoxically speaking, might actually turn HER on if you let her know of your predicament. On a psychological level, it would turn her into the aggressor and you the receiver of her advances. She could actually get some unexpected fun out of this too! But that's obviously not what we're talking about, so...

The No Mas Masturbation plan actually goes like this: No touching yourself AT ALL between 40-60 days, while consorting with as many live females as your wallet and/or your emotions can afford. Seeing that this could still be a problem and not lead to the resolution of RE for those of unlimited financial means and/or obsessive feelings, the best [in your case, it seems] is to avoid any sexually stimulating contact with women for as long as you can hold out, and then hit the pinata together with a live female. I also advocate staying away from porn in any shape or form; not even strip bars or watching Girls Gone Wild is allowed, if you really want to get to the bottom of this problem. You need to be so sexually starved and so hungry for stimulation that it would send someone with PE [the opposite condition] into massive ejaculations from just sitting still and imagining sex.

In the meantime, stay away from the saltpeter - in sausage-making, they use it to give salami its characteristic "pink" hue.

I swear, you boys,
the Love Goddess

I am now at least 3 weeks in without masturbating. This does not mean I have not looked at pictures, because I had to look at ads to see who I would want to meet with next. I had 1 live female experience in that time span. Unfortunately, even 3 weeks in I was still not able to ejaculate with the lady. I remember in psychology class that it takes 21 days to stop a habit. It sure has been 21 days already, and my urge to masturbate is minuscule. Another date will happen in 1 week and a half. By then it will be at least 30 days for me without masturbation. However, I am going to bring my laptop with me during that date and play a porn video to see what my end result will be.

So the date will have 2 factors that will help. I will have not masturbated 30 days at least, and I will have my main source of pleasure for 6 years present during my next date. If this does not make me orgasm, then I do not know what will!

They don't pick 'em for their looks, ya know.

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Thanks to all for their help and encouragement.

I'll let you know in a few weeks how everything comes out. Pun intended.

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