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but I gotta tell you, you are setting yourself up for drama....

the only time I OTC with a provider is when *she* invites and that is usually right after the session, whens she is not otherwise busy....   it's usually a hanging out and catching up thing or doing something *she* would like to do which I am also down for,   or grabbing dinner...  sometimes a sort of a "date" like environment afterward...   on rare occasions a date like environment before, sort of a mutual fantasy thing....

I have become friends with a few providers over the years but all I will do is send the occasional friendly email to their personal account to let them know I was thinking about them... which they respond to at their convenience... -  it is less invasive.  I don't believe in using her business phone or email and if you don't have her personal phone or email you are making invalid assumptions about her level of interest...

the guy who spent the weekend with the AMP girl was so much less pathetic than poor tidwit.

I don't keep up with his "blog" here, but I am wrong in assuming this was an unpaid date with a provider, or was this a civvie date? Either way, it sounds like another pathetic chapter in the book of "how to remain clueless in life"

and just what's wrong with a dinner date? I have one tomorrow with a provider. We have a paid one hour "session" that I pay for,followed by a dinner "date" which lasts anywhere from an hour or two, to maybe 4 or 5 depending on how tired either of us are from our respective days.

I know she is looking forward to it because since I have been down in Costa Rica for the last week, she has sent me at least a couple of dozen texts telling me how much she is looking forward to it, and guess what, if she says she is tired after an hour, that will be just fine, What's so hard about this concept? Would someone please rent our poor floundering sap a clue, I am almost starting to feel sorry for him.

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Um, indoor climbing? Did you ask the lady what kinds of things she likes? If she loves climbing I might can see this scenario, but for a date and maybe a first date, maybe keep it a tad more low key.

A single rose (any color but red) would have been a better choice IMO.

A text saying you were looking forward to seeing her should have been fine and shows some interest without being too much.

Steph

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