What? You mean I can't believe Cosmo???

"One night, a woman just in black underwear - who happened to be straddling a naked man - was rolled in. They told us they had been doing a lot of drugs and having sex when the woman's vagina cramped up and the guy couldn't pull out. The doctor on duty gave her a muscle relaxant, and after several minutes, they were able to separate"

Just because it isn't COMPLETELY true doesn't mean that a woman can't exercise her keigle (spelling may be off) muscle and tighten up around the penis.  I like to do that right after a guy has ejaculated to squeeze out every drop...that and a good slap on the ass at exactly the right moment!  Oops!  Did I say that??
xoxoClair

I've had quite a few squeeze to get me out, but none to keep me in!

For some reason, my ex-wife used to get a laugh out of squeezing hard and popping me out, once she had decided we were done.  So much for women wanting to enjoy the "afterglow."

Hey, a word of advice if you're a newbie to the wonderful world of sex.  Almost nothing is normal or average, we're all very different and have different experiences, different desires and bodies that respond differently.  It's best to find your own way and what works for you, and not to worry too much about what other people say or claim.  

Of course, there is "typical" or "common" behavior, but after ten years on this board, and 40 years of having sex, I can assure you that no two of us are exactly alike in this regard.

And that, my newbie friend, is what makes the experience of having sex so special.  Because you will find that it's unique with every woman you are fortunate enough to have sex with- and it's also why you can't stress about what should you be doing.

I've never had two women want the same thing, and I continue to be amazed at all the variations.  That's why you should take your cue from your partner as you explore each other.  Find out over time what she likes and be flexible enough to accommodate her while still enjoying yourself.  And don't be afraid to let your preferences be known too.  A lot of guys spend so much time worrying about how to do this or that to please their partner, that they forget express their needs to the woman.  It's not automatic that a guy will be satisfied just because a woman lets him have sex with her, she needs to know what you like.

You'll also find you can have great compatibility with one woman, and then find the next one doesn't like your technique, or likes totally different things, so learn to adopt. But also realize that sometimes you'll just be incompatible, and don't be afraid to move on.

I could tell you some really funny stories about what worked with one woman and backfired with the next, but I don't want to scramble your brain and confuse you with conflicting advice at this early stage.  You'll have your own stories soon enough!

you mean that the poster on GD with the alias handle

"Penis Captivis Girl" is mis representing themself?

the horror!