Having alot of conversations, not alot of conversions with numerous POTS.
Some younger ones, the conversations flow, some it's like pulling teeth to get basic questions answered, which in today's time is understandable.
I have noticed with a handful of initial conversations with some, they immediately start calling me "Love" or "Babe", not by my name which I originally tell them in my initial opening conversation. I can honestly say, I would never use any affectionate words prior to a BCD date. Afterwards, yes, sometimes.
It seems very "Trashy, Hookerish/Escortish" when these words are used to address me since we never met or were ever intimate. It feels they are juggling numerous conversations and cannot remember who they are talking to by name.
Is it wrong of me to judge them thinking they are semi pro or non educated, or am I over thinking this when they call me that? I kind of takes the wind out of my sails when they use those words right off the bat.
You're not wrong to be put off by terms like Love, Babe so early in the conversation. I feel the same way. But do recognize that our discomfort with being addressed that way stems from our old fashioned culture, not theirs. Yes, sometimes it does mean what you suspect, namely that you are one of many they are chatting up. But even so, it just means you have to follow through enough to become a standout to them, a real individual person with a real name! Other times though, it's just how some of these young women talk and they think it's attractive and endearing. So don't jump to any conclusions too soon!
This is not unique to the Sugar Bowl. As I was reading your post, I was thinking about all the diners and bars I've been to over the years where the waitress (usually older!) called me "hon," "sweetie," or "babe."
They were (probably) not hookers - although there was that one hot/inked bartender at a strip club on "The Block" in Baltimore... but I digress. They could indeed be talking to multiple people, and in fact, probably are. There's no reason to think she is only talking to you when she's looking for a (or some) good POT SD(s).
But take a higher-level view of this; the current generation grew up with phones and asynchronous communication styles (e.g.: text) as a primary mode. Along with that comes an inherent laziness about typing "useless" letters or punctuation. So calling you "Love" or "luv" may just be the norm. She's using short cuts like this everywhere, including TLA's (three letter acronyms) or terms like "BFF" "BAE" "idk" "ty" "dip" "mid" "af" and more.
And then again, yes. Hookers use these terms because many don't really care what your name is (beyond screening) and don't want to take the time to "scroll up" the chat to find out.
I treat this issue as just one datum in the evaluation process. The issue could disappear once we get to voice, facetime or actual face-to-face communications.
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The Cat 
Yes, it's the norm on Seeking for the girls to answer with those terms. It's also common to get one word and two word replies as well as difficult to get any kind of conversation or communication going with most of these POTS. Hell, you're lucky to even get a response at all!
It used to bug me a POT would use 'Hon' or 'Babe' and not use my real name even though I provided it as my only experience was with hookers and they use these terms all the time so I assumed anyone who uses them is a SW [sex worker]. I was mistaken.
I've since accepted it, as I've met many SB's who were legit who were not SW's and I've developed long term sugar relationships with them. Regular girls use 'hon' and 'babe' a lot and I don't think one SB has ever used my real name!
So ignore it and keep moving them toward offline communication and getting to the M&G which brings you one step closer to an actual arrangement.
Consider this..we only message the girls we find attractive, I'd say the ratio of guys that post about these girls vs the ones that don't know the review world exists is 1:10...Now, consider how many messages an attractive 25yr old might receive any given day...I know I can get flustered trying to schedule meets for 3-4 new POTs and texting them to avoid the ban hammer on allowance expectations and what not. I use TOE with all of them as it makes them feel special and not like a piece of ass..And I can definitely understand the flaky stuff when they are trying to avoid all the dick they are getting thrown at them and there aren't enough days in the week to ride it all... I'm guessing the hottest ones can literally pick and choose between 25-30 guys on any given day..
