Simple question:  
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What is your approach to V-Day with your SB(s)?
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Obviously, your status as married or having an SO vs. being single drives two different paths. But in general, how do you handle this with your SB(s)?.
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- Avoid them, maybe claim you are out of town on business?
- If married, I suppose you get a pass on the 14th, but do you also schedule something before/after?  
- Send flowers?  
- Buy jewelry?  
- Full blown (pun intended) deal: flowers, expensive dinner & champagne, gifts, weekend trip to a ritzy hotel/resort?  
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And on the flip side, what have you seen your SB's do for you?  
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I'm not married and I generally think of my #1 SB as a part-time "GF." I've introduced her to my friends (who do not know I sugar) as my GF and she is a welcome addition to our social circle.  For her circle of family and friends, it's different. She has not disclosed my existence to them and isn't looking to change that. Since the 14th is the Friday before President's Day, her family is taking a trip from that Friday through Monday. So no dinner out and dessert at home for me on V-Day. But I'm sending her flowers (she lives alone) and we are having dinner on the 13th. The rest of my rotation get's silence. Or if they ask, I'll be out of town for unspecified reasons.  
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And since I'm always interviewing for new rotation additions, I have a M&G the day before on the 12th with a 26 year old, Caribbean-mix spinner who goes to school (Psychology) and models part time.  So as I always say...
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Life is good.
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The Cat