Just a brain dump of my last 10-ish days in the Bowl:  

1. I let go of my #1 A-list SB. It was time after almost 4 years. Although we developed and still have deep affection for each other, her personal and career life needs kept eroding the activities she was comfortable doing with me; both BCD and out and about.  It was a very difficult decision. But I had to let her know the arrangement, so different now from when we first met, was no longer working for me. I gave her a month's worth of allowance and said goodbye.  I hope we remain friends... but I will let her decide if she wants to stay in contact.

 
2. Reactivated my SA profile and began a new search. The other primary SB in my rotation is ok... she's sweet and working hard on school and life, and her allowance requests are reasonable. But she's not really making my blood boil. So I hung out my profile shingle and was open for new business.  

 
3. As you may expect, I received a TON of BS favorites and some one- or two-word messages from near and far.  Most were promptly ignored.  I just don't know what a 24-yeard old blond from Boise expects me to do for her when I live in LA.  

 
4. But a few POT's vetted well - sort of - and I set up 3 M&G's and one BAB (Bang and Bail). The 1st was a disappointment. She was significantly heavier than her 3 profile pics (mostly face shots) and I had to decline, politely.  The 2nd seemed to go well, really well. We seemed to like each other, were very compatible in how we want an arrangement to work, even talked about BCD preferences. I made an allowance offer before we ended the M&G and she seemed to agree with it. I was surprised that she did not push back on my offer, since she said her last SD was giving her $1k PPM.  Well it turns out, she was probably just not comfortable negotiating. She ghosted me when I texted to follow up.  The 3rd went about the same. A 25-year old stunner. Great time and convo at the M&G but her last SD went from $650 PPM to monthly allowance of $2k.  I countered with $400 (on the high side for me) and like #2, she seemed to agree. But she balked later by text and asked me for $1k.  Of course, I had to politely decline. I didn't even bother to try to negotiate an increase over my 1st offer. I might have been willing to go to $500, but my gut told me she was really just not that interested in me.  Lastly, in the middle of all this, I got a message from a Pacific Islander from NY. She said she'd be in LA for business and offered to meet for $500 before she left town. The pics were hot - and so I missed the red flag. They were older shots, perhaps as much as 10 years.  I should have asked for recent pics, but I did not. When I picked her up at her hotel in Beverly Hills I should have refused to let her much older, much fatter body get into my car. But I did not.  I was trying to rationalize that she might look better naked. She did not.  After we tried to BCD - yes I was just THAT stupid - I dropped her off and never looked back.  Life was not good that day.  

 
5. And then as I was doing new searches this weekend, I got a text from a 23-year old AA Spinner I did a BAB with last November. She wants to see me again. I got a sense that she was a UTR pro when we 1st met.  But I'm cool if she's cool.   We are scheduling for early next week. Should be fun.   And another of my B-List SB's, a 30-ish Asian will be here at 4:00 pm today for a little BCD romp.  Finally, as I've been writing this post I've been texting with a 28-year old blond spinner to schedule a M&G in a few days.  So I guess...  

 

Life is good

 
The Cat