Or the first meet. A few tricks I picked up. Not only to avoid scams but to also save a huge headache.
A few generic rules. These are magical if you don't live close or if you're 50/50 on her.
1. I am not paying for this. Be up front.
2. Expect it to last at least 30 minutes and be clear to her about that. Why? I want to see if we have chemistry. And it eliminates scams. If they are pros they will dive into 'show me your dick's. And then will flash their boobs. If you're cool with a pro go for it. You will know where you are at and should definitely cover up
3. Make sure you discuss allowance and expectations. Make her talk about sex. If she's into it. Even better
4. Plan to meet and soon if you hit it off. Don't let the good vibes fade.
5. Have specific questions to ask. Some scams will have a recording of the woman in the pics trying to say hi and talk to you. Then hang up and say bad reception. Others will show a video of her talking to someone else while trying to sell something. It's always fake and they are holding a cell phone up to capture the video, you can usually see a bit of Shakey hands. But a specific question, "tell me why orange is a cool color" always proves if they are fake.
6. Be clear on how often you want to see her. I'm looking for a few dates a month. I like consistency. Get her to agree.
7. Cut it off if you are not into her. Don't waste your time or hers. Some girls just turn me off by talking. Can't handle valley girl accent.
