I have never cum in a girls mouth, I would like to try it I need some advice is it safe should I go for it. I really want to know what it feels like.

. . . I guess the pleasure is psychological.

It's safe! Go for it dude!!  Not all the girls will allow it, but the ones that do are out there...

some would never even consider it while some I've known insist on it.

Tastes vary.  litteraly.

When does one swallow her/his lover? It can be an incredible turn-on if both parties are really into it. It can be quite a let down if it's just a performance. Do your homework.

My dear bowl47,
You definitely should try ejaculating in a girl's mouth, if she offers. It is relatively safe [having sex is ALWAYS a risk-taking endeavor, even with condoms, since they can fail] and that way, you will really "know what it feels like."

You'll probably be back for more,
the Love Goddess

LG,
Whereas I generally agree, I am somewhat taken aback by the first part of the second sentence, unless we define "relatively" quiter a bit broader than I am used to.
If participants in the hobby customarily insist in condom use (at least in my experience), it is nowadays not primarily for contraceptive purposes but to provide a barrier to certain undesirable critters. If she freely offers a bbbjcim to one client, one should assume she does so to others and I am not aware of saliva having specific (or more general) anti-infection properties that would deal with such critters.
Yes? No? Maybe?
ski

Yes!!! By All Means  !!  Go For It  !!!  A Terrific Rush!!!

Perhaps the LG could find the published references, but it has been suggested that CIM is the most intimate thing one person can do with another. It's about the willingness to take whatever the partner gives and incorporate it into your self.  When you find someone who really gets into it, you'll stop looking.

It used to be said - tongue in cheeck (pun intended) - that if the symbol of love was the dove, the symbol of true love was the swallow.
ski

do you just want to CIM or to be swallowed? there is a significant difference, and many providers who will allow CIM will not swallow, so make sure you are clear regarding your desires.

It's the one way that I cum that brings me the most pleasure. Looking at her face with her lips locked around my cock as I explode is enrapturing.

Don't do it all the time but I like knowing it's available so if the mood seems right... It can be fantastic. Spit or swallow, I don't care since it's after the fact.

I agree there is nothing better then a gal who takes a load and doesnt miss a beat swallows and keeps on sucking.... by the way are there any providers in Hoston TX that offer that service??

My very first girlfriend liked it, 40 years later I'm still hooked

I am surprised that no VIP has noted that one benefit is the ability to search for "spits" or "swallows".  If you were a VIP, you would know that reviews have been posted in the past 60 days for 10 gals in the Houston area who swallow.  

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On the other hand, there are definitely girls out there who love to swallow, and it has nothing to do with being intimate, or loving, or incorporating part of a loved one.  Some girls just find it erotic, and do it for their own pleasure.