Hi All,
I recently read a post here, sorry don't remember the author, which said that if a potential SB refused to offer BBBJ, that was a deal breaker for him, time to move on.  I had an interesting related experience on that subject.  I met a lovely very young SB for lunch and we agreed to meet BCD next time.  We did so, and had a very fine time together sexually.  But when I asked if she liked giving and receiving oral sex, she was quite ok with being on the receiving end.  As for performing oral on me her exact words were, "I'm very good at it but I don't like it".  That seemed odd, but I didn't push the subject.  A couple of dates later, the truth came out.  Every guy she had ever been with previously had grabbed her head and forced her to choke on his cock!  She hated that experience and hated being treated so roughly and disrespectfully.  By the time she told me this we had established an excellent level of trust, and she knew I was always kind and gentle with her,  so she went down on me and I discovered she has some fine talents.  Excellent teasing to begin with and lots of eye contact.  She's my current atf and the BBBJ is now a regular part of our visits.  So don't be too quick to dismiss  a girl who is reluctant at first.  She just might have a damn good reason that you can deal with!