I re-upped on SA for one month here. Met an SB in public. She's willing to go BCD and in fact bugging me to set the date. At our meeting she said how she's only had two SD's and the last one had moved to Costa Rica for tax purposes and she's been looking for her next one and only SD. Except I've been tracking her on SA since 2019 when I first contacted her. She has been on continuously since. I haven't paid a subscription for four years but remembered contacting her, so always noticed her checking in.
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So anyhow, after agreeing to go BCD at some future date, she disappeared from SA. But not being born yesterday, I check from a different SA account and she's still there, so she blocked me. Obviously not to avoid me, because she's pushing for the BCD. But I think she's going to say that since she found me, she deleted her SA -- cuz I'm the one, right.
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But in reality she's probably seeing whoever she can, rather than being exclusive. Which doesn't actually bother me.
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Since I don't care, I'll still go ahead and see her. But it underscores that the "only one SD" claim isn't likely to be always true, just something they say to either make themselves feel less slutty, or because they think guys want to hear that.
"But it underscores that the "only one SD" claim isn't likely to be always true."
But in fact, it's not true. So I always tell them early in the conversation that I have other SBs and I expect them to have other SDs. In fact, I prefer it that way. I would be uncomfortable if I thought they were relying on me and only me for 100% of their need$. Usually they are relieved to hear that, and do tell me they are seeing others. So it's all out in the open. But occasionally I've had a few who still insist I'm the only guy they are dating. And they told my good buddy exactly the same thing! We did not tell her we knew she was lying, but we knew!