I'm really surprised how many actually try this.  I expect it's done with the assumption that men who use a dating site are timid Betas who fear pissing off a woman.  In other words: A "simp" who will give money, power, authority to a woman in the HOPE that she may, at some point show us affection.  There are other sites where a simp can get abused like that. They are called FINDOM sites.  

 
Instead, sugar-dating is a transactional model. Yes, we will pay an SB for a date. But no, we will not pay just to avoid making her "mad."  If we don't like the deal, we walk.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat