Had an interesting week in The Bowl and thought I would share.
Last Friday, went through my entire roster trying to set up something for Sat/Sun. No takers. Everyone was busy, had plans, etc...Finally texted a SB that I've gone BCD's a few times. Young, phenomenal body, but socially awkward/quiet/ introvert and not a good kisser so she was effectively off my team as I had not contacted her in over 3 months. To my surprise, she was available and we met Saturday afternoon. OMG was she horny and excited. Still a little shy, but the awkwardness was gone and taught her a little about DFK'ing. She's back on the team.
Monday had drinks and appetizers with a former SB (at her request) who wants to get back together. She's sexy, smart and aggressive in bed. Her pitch was interesting. She has a steady boyfriend and is enjoying their relationship, but wants to have sex with me because she hates monogamy. Seeing her next week and thinking this may convert to a FWB (dinner $) as opposed to an arrangement (PPM $).
Tuesday, #3 SB ends our arrangement via text. Salty because I forgot her birthday and "treated her like an escort". First time I've been dumped by a SB. Apologized and had a pleasant text exchange, but she's done with me.
Last night saw #1 SB at her place. The usual wine, food, music and mind blowing sex. She then talked about our amazing connection and her fears of relationship/rejection. Because I'm married and therefore "unavailable", she finds comfort with me.
This AM, talking to a 22 yo POT SB. Just happening to be in my area this week and wants to meet up. Physically attractive (if really her) and price is low, but a few red flags, so I am playing along for my entertainment.
Was a good week! How was yours?
Sounds like you're in the groove and having fun. Congrats!
It's an unavoidable aspect of sugaring that SB's will sometimes dump an SD, and vice versa. It's happened to me so many times in 10+ years that I don't even look at it as a negative. It's a chance to install a fresh new hottie into my rotation. And there's nothing really so exciting as sliding into a new pussy you've only known for a few days - or hours!
What I also notice in your story is a positive theme I cannot stress enough to everyone seeking (no pun intended) advice on being an SD: Please your SB in bed better than any 20-ish bar douche ever could and you'll own her heart and pink parts for a long, long time (as long as you keep providing allowance). It doesn't matter how you look (I'm old and fat), your tongue looks amazing in the dark when it's bringing her multiple O's.
With the election close at hand (not getting political!) I wonder what type of effect passing this key milestone (regardless of the outcome) will have on the influx of new SB's.... ?
For now Shock, you're on a roll.
Life is good
The Cat
