I was barely 18 the first time I had a threesome and multiple hits of acid were involved, What followed was maybe 24 hours of a blur of naked bodies and a LOT of sucking and fucking. Equipment failure was NOT an issue, lol, and neither were condoms or any kind of clock as this was not a P4P situation. I got invited into the lives and the bed of a hot, young (18 or so) lesbian couple in West Germany way back in the mid '70s during the age of "Free love" Maybe it was the uniform. GI's were mainly liked in Europe back then. lol
One word of advice if you tend to be the "one and done" type like me and SM. There is no rule that demands you "finish" yourself when you fuck the first girl. One advantage of old age is the ability to hold back from finishing pretty much as long as I want to. If you can do the same, next time fuck the first girl for 5 or 10 minutes, until you get the feeling she has either cum or at least that she is reasonably satisfied, take a short break, resembling a young mans five minute "Recovery" break and then resume the activities. There is no reason for either of them to know that you aren't cumming multiple times if you can keep the action going at a pace to keep them both satisfied.
Ok, I am a newbie at 3somes. I have only done one and that was about 3 or 4 years ago when I was back in Philly. My SB at the time wanted me to done one bc I had never done one and she was bisexual and wanted to have one. Then she put the onus on me to find the third. She said the girls she knew that would do one were not good enough for her or had BFs that would get upset if they had a 3some and they were the male. lol.
So I managed to find a third through SA, but it took like 2 or 3 months of working just the 3some angle and trying not to get blocked or scammed.
So now, the SB I am currently seeing likes the occasional 3some and wants me to find a third. She was shocked when I told her how much work it was to find a third through SA without getting the permanent block. Plus, its not me MO so I would likely have to create another profile just to targeting that. Ugh, not something I wanted to do. So the other option is getting an escort, which she was ok with but was shocked that most escorts wanted extra money for couples. lol
So have any of you had this situation and what do you recommend for finding a third. I asked her about friends on her end, but she doesn't want them to know she likes a little pussy every now or know that she is seeing me. 25 yrs older than her. lol
I did my 3some when I found two submissives. It might be easier to look for submissives than specifically someone willing to do FMF threesome. Naturally I ran it by both of them first and they were agreeable. Ironically I wasn't even looking for submissives explicitly when I found these two. But conversation led them to reveal some things (like nipple clamps) they were into, and that lead to deeper discussions.
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So sometimes you have to pull on the string to see where it leads.
Most SB's will start looking at you different if you even admit you've been with a hooker, much less can find one to join the two of you.
Personally, I would just string her along and give her lip service that you are "trying" to find a girl to join you. I would only do a threesome with an SB if it was one of HER friends that we played with. I wouldn't want the two of them to get together and compare notes about me and have my SB find out I was that fucking whoremongering pig GaGambler. lol
Ironically the subject of threesomes just came up last night with one of the SB's I've been seeing pretty regularly lately. The subject came up about how her ex always wanted to do a threesome and how she was never interested, and then she shifted gears almost in mid sentence and told me she had a friend she knew would be down for it if I were interested. They are both about the same age, my SB is 24 her friend is 25 and has a couple of SD's herself. I am not normally that interested in threesomes, but I think this one might be fun.
Back to your situation, one other thing to consider, do you REALLY want your SB to know how much more money she could be making as a hooker?
LOL, not worried about her knowing what escorts make. She has a fairly negative attitude towards escorts mainly because I don't think she understands they're not much different than her. lol. Oops did I type that out? What's even funnier is that she said she was a cam girl in college. go figure. She gave me her real phone number and name. I know what she does for a living so I am not worried about her "going pro" on me. lol
Of course, GaGa knowing you are not too far away from me, I am taking resumes if you want to send your SB's or her friends over to me. lol. Just kidding.
I actually was thinking of reaching out to a woman I saw last year. She had mentioned doing 3somes before too. She dumped me, very politely, to supposedly go back to vanilla dating. I wonder if she might be interested in a once in a while 3some. lol.
... as shown by my utter failure in booking SB threesomes.
Note I have had many threesomes in my 30 years of mongering, but they were either with two civvies (one time only) or with two pros in multiple countries.
In the Sugar Bowl, I've had the full spectrum of SB attitudes on this - from "no fucking way" to "please yes ASAP!" But it's never come together. Probably the closest I've come to an SB threesome this was when dating porn star SB's. Two have specifically promised to bring a porn star friend, but it never happened. Sad because banging two A- or B-list porn stars in a threesome would be AMAZING! Other porn stars have said they would be ok with it, as long as she was fully tested according to industry standards (as I am) and that I would need to "handle the sugar" on my own.
Of course, the ideal situation would be a current SB bringing in her hot friend for a three way and the friend is just there for kicks and is not expecting (or aware of!) any sugar.
I suppose I could hire a pro and pay her a bit extra to play it off like we are old FWB's. But as fun as that could be, I'd really like to have the (almost) spontaneous threesome just sort of happen when my SB pulls a hottie from somewhere... That would really mean that...
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My experiences parallel The Cat's. I've had very successful and satisfying threesomes, a foursome and even some group scenes but they're always been with talented and enthusiastic providers, never in the sugaring world. There have been those at SA who say they're offering and may profile themselves as a duo but they are either super $$$$$, afflicted with terminal GPS, just unwilling to follow through or ghosts. I'd never turn down a legitimate offer, I'd love it, in fact, but easier and more fun to stick with those who know what they're doing, at least for me.
I've found that most SBs that I date are more than happy to give this a go and often have a "friend" they've always wanted to try it with. Money is what primes the pump in most of these cases. Once it gets going though there's no controlling it!!
I agree that will be hard to find a third if you really want her to have sex with your SB. If she/you want to have your SB go down on the third, that will be easier than if you want to have her go down on your SB. A sub would probably be you best bet, particularly if you already know her and she trusts you.
I have done two and talked about it with several others: one with a couple of escorts in Beijing, the other with a couple of SBs who were both bi-curious but lesbian virgins.
The Chinese escorts were willing to do a threesome that involved me taking turns with them, but they didn't want to touch each other although they were friends and that they had suggested the threesome. I have talked about threesomes with several other SBs and escorts, and they were either completely uninterested or only willing to do it on the "taking turns with each" approach" One escort told me how another escort told her that most guys just wanted to watch, and they could get away with cheek kissing and caressing each other to fake girl-girl action. Another was willing to let the GF or SB go down on her, but she wouldn't go down on the GF/SB.
The SBs, both of whom I had already been with multiple times, were happy to have tried girl-girl and did go down on each other. One said that she might try it again, and the other said that she was glad that she had tried it once but that I had confirmed her heterosexuality.
Like The Cat my threesome experience is very limited. I did one with a couple of TER escorts years ago, and I did one with a pair of SBs who were traveling together and advertising themselves as a duo. But I've never had one arranged by a current SB or arranged one myself. But that might change. A few days ago I had another amazing session with my current #1SB and in our post coital conversation the subject of 3 somes came up. She said she'd be into it with me and another girl. I asked if she had any friends who'd like to join us. She said no but why don't you get one of your other SBs to join us? Unlike Gambler I would like it if two of my SBs talked about me and compared notes. So I'm thinking about my current roster of active SBs and I'm quite sure a couple of them would be down for a 3some. The question is, am I down for it? I can barely handle one vibrant energetic young female, how the fuck would I manage with two?
Easy, the little blue pill! lol
If you are with two women, they will both want you attention. They don't care as much about erections, but they will want to act like that you care for both of them.
They aren't averse to the blue pill, but cuddling is more important than penetration.
Of course you're both correct. In recent years I've upped my oral game , and one of my #1 SB's best O's last session was from my fingers! Junior still works well, and believe me, I use all the pharmaceutical enhancements available! And I' consider myself to be a world class cuddler, so I should be good to go!
Agreed! Its not all about penetration, but you can show that you are still interested by waving the flag after the first volley.
I believe women like to know that if they want a second round in their favorite position that its available. lol.
My comment was really to tease Sweetman because in one of his previous posts he mentioned being a "one and done" guy. LOL
During my one and only 3some, I made the unenviable mistake of drinking too much wine. I was nervous being with two hot females that were half my age. My #1 SB (at the time) wanted to watch me do the other woman first, which I did to oblige her but after that the wine killed my mojo. lol. Wish I had the blue pill back then. The two women proceeded to have fun while I "rested" and tried to get back in the game. I was able to recover enough that the #1 SB got a turn. The two of them worked together to get me to the point she could have a turn, which was hot to watch. So it was fun, but it was also mentally discouraging that I had equipment issues as I had never a problem before with multiple rounds with either woman. So the lesson learned was watch the alcohol. Since then age has caught up with me and I use the blue pill to ensure there are no "repeating" problems with the equipment.
I was barely 18 the first time I had a threesome and multiple hits of acid were involved, What followed was maybe 24 hours of a blur of naked bodies and a LOT of sucking and fucking. Equipment failure was NOT an issue, lol, and neither were condoms or any kind of clock as this was not a P4P situation. I got invited into the lives and the bed of a hot, young (18 or so) lesbian couple in West Germany way back in the mid '70s during the age of "Free love" Maybe it was the uniform. GI's were mainly liked in Europe back then. lol
One word of advice if you tend to be the "one and done" type like me and SM. There is no rule that demands you "finish" yourself when you fuck the first girl. One advantage of old age is the ability to hold back from finishing pretty much as long as I want to. If you can do the same, next time fuck the first girl for 5 or 10 minutes, until you get the feeling she has either cum or at least that she is reasonably satisfied, take a short break, resembling a young mans five minute "Recovery" break and then resume the activities. There is no reason for either of them to know that you aren't cumming multiple times if you can keep the action going at a pace to keep them both satisfied.
I have done 2 or 3 straight up escort.. 2 on 1... fun... I had an ATF.. who would know girls & approach them.. "Do you need $350?".. then set it up.. very hot.. did three of those.. I did one MFM that was also a lot of fun.. and I attended an orgy one that was like a 10-some I guess.. always fun.
One I did with 2 girls.. all of a sudden one pegged me while I was doing anal CG on the other.. wowza.. that was something.
The best three somes/foursome I had experienced were when the ladies genuinely enjoy each other’s company and desire each other more than you the male; working out ahead of time to build up stamina helps with long lasting fun!
Bassrat, my experience with threesomes has been unplanned. A handful of times I have set up a first date at a bar or restaurant with an inexperienced SB from SA who gets nervous maybe just hours before the date and asks if she can bring a friend or roommate with her? At first, I thought it would kill my chances but agreed anyway because it might be fun to be even on a platonic date with two young, hot chicks, and who knows what might happen? Well, a few times this has just naturally progressed to a threesome back at my place and I'm convinced no one had that in mind in the beginning. I've written about it elsewhere on the board, so I won't repeat all that.