3 Jakarta POTs lined up for three days, plus a bonus one in the bag as of last night.

 
I created a new account on the main SB site, having let mine lapse months ago out of general frustration, so my site presence has been zero for a long time. I've kept a limited rotation from past SBs but this trip created a new opportunity, hence the new account. I followed this board's advice on avoiding trigger words, etc.  

 
I started a couple days before arriving in-country. I found plenty of fish to aim for and I only sniped for the ones I wanted. I couldn't figure out how to hide my profile but I didn't look very hard. So most of my inbox traffic was in response to my sniper shots, plus a few who found me on their own (probably after I viewed their profiles). This country is fairly conservative and Muslim, but officially secular. Still, plenty of young girls are in the game. I quickly had more than I could text. Several mentioned living with parents, precluding overnights or even late nights.

 
Most were easy to move off site quickly (WhatsApp). Allowance negotiations were easy, with the going rate seeming to be less than one third of the going rate for average SBs in major American cities. One exception wanted 2/3 of the US going rate and she wouldn't budge. Plus she wanted me to buy her the dress in her profile.  

 
POT Zero (last night) I met in the hotel bar of an upscale American chain. I got in late so I hadn't set anything up. The host of the bar intentionally seated me next to her, so they've got a deal going on between themselves. Three unattached chicks in bar area, two more chicks with dudes, no dudes alone except me. (Also when I left briefly to use the facilities I was approached by two young ladies working together.) No way on earth this chain would tolerate this level of pro density in the US. All the chicks seemed in their mid-30s to 40 and far from terrible looking.

 
I really was trying to get some late night email done, but POT Zero (a pro) was quietly persistent. I learned that she had been a SB before even though, but since she's clearly a pro now I can't really count her as a SB experience. She was willing for 1/6 of the US going rate and the experience was better than expected. Very enthusiastic.

 
I am waiting for POT 1 now just after noon. She is already 2.5 hours late, but at least she's communicating. 21yo, very cute, has had one SD. POT 2 is 23 and even cuter, scheduled for tomorrow. And POT 3 is 24 and equal to POT 2 in looks. The highest any of them want is less than one-half the US going rate.

 
I'll report back with my experience.

 
Rockford

Isn't it the rainy season? Super hot and humid?

Having spent the entire month of April in Jakarta earlier this year, I know you will have an epic time.  

 
If you are interested in taking an SB out for an upscale, and relatively inexpensive (by US prices) dining experience, head to the Grand Indonesia Maill in the northern part of the city.  

 
If you want to check out the local "spa" venues (all-inclusive on-site experiences for less than 25% of a typical US SB date), check out:  Classic Hotel, Emporium Hotel, Malio Hotel (most expensive but worth it), or Travel Hotel.   All are probably a $2-6 Grab Ride from your hotel.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

It was warm (80s) and muggy (70%-ish), but tolerable with smart clothing choices. Think Kansas City in June. No rain while I was there; maybe I was lucky.

 
Rockford

I took your advice on the Grand Indonesian mall. But I went to buy some gifts for domestic SBs.

 
If I'd been in country longer, I would have made the destination a date.

 
Rockford

POT 1 finally showed up 3 hours late. I positioned myself right by the hotel's car dropoff because I had a sense she was unaccustomed to the security (bomb check, metal detector, belt scanner, etc.). Her English was passable and she was visibly relieved I was there to meet her. She apologized for being late and her excuse was supremely lame ("slept too long" -- horrible SB time management seems to cross cultures). She was VERY shy but wanted to kiss a lot and it seemed that kissing put her at ease. (I had already asked if she liked to kiss and she gave an enthusiastic yes.) She was too late for the lunch I had planned but she did not complain and she said beforehand that she could spend until 7pm with me. We made the most of our time with lovemaking at my pace, a nice nap, more lovemaking, etc. 4-5 hours together. Texted her gratitude twice on her way home. Now she is contacting me again about me going back to Jakarta.

 
POT 2 the next day was actually 19, not 23 as I reported earlier. I gave up on her because she just disappeared the morning I tried to confirm. But because I didn't lash out at her by text, she just resurfaced as if everything was normal and she was on her way. She clearly knew the drill and also looked great with her choice of dress and makeup. There was no pretense of her wanting lunch or even to spend the afternoon like POT1. She was definitely high-grade. She enjoys what she gets, but also what she gives, and took pride in coaxing another round. If I were staying in Jakarta a longer time, she would be my regular. I wonder how the exclusivity talk would go?  

 
POT 3 contacted me on the day of POT 2 to tell me she would be unavailable because of her period. I thanked her for letting me know and didn't try very hard to line up a substitute POT 3. Then, later that day, she asked me if I wanted to see her 21yo friend instead. I said I was interested and asked for pics. Friend was not as attractive -- good body, but face not as good -- and I said I'd see her, but I wanted to text directly with her and not have to go through POT3. POT3 told me her friend spoke/texted no English. I tried to imagine any kind of a hiccup along the path of getting her to the hotel, through security, etc. with no common language and never having met. So I said I was grateful for the offer, but I must decline.

 
So all in all, I got 2/3 planned dates plus a substitute offered on a silver platter if I wanted her, plus a bonus date, all for around 1/3 the cost of what I might have paid back home. They spent as much time with me as I wanted. They were demure and modest and grateful. I only touched the tip of the iceberg and operated exclusively from my hotel because it was a brief visit. I can recommend Jakarta, especially if you have more time.

 
Rockford

Should have had POT #3 bring her friend to the hotel for a threesum! That would solve the language problem, and #3 could give oral, while her friend was FS!

Your experiences are very similar to mine.  All my POT's were demure, affectionate, and shy, but were very enthusiastic in bed. I think it's a direct result of their ultra-conservative religious upbringing coupled with a "safe" outlet to explore some hidden rebellious nature when meeting a foreigner. And all the women I met just LOVE sex.  

 
And all of my dates dressed up in upscale designer-like attire. MY #1 wore Chanel suits (maybe a knock off?) and had a designer handbag. Under that suit was matching sexy lingerie, and scrupulous hygiene.  

 
What you did not have time to do was try the all-in-one-spas.  These are essentially brothels staffed with dozens, sometimes hundreds of women (18-30+) who skip the demure aspect and overtly work the guests with flirting, groping, flashing, kissing, etc, to get the guy to pay for cheap drinks and ultimately a half-hour or hour session. The cost varies from less than one of your sugar dates (less than half) to more than double, depending on the location (all are in well-known hotels near mid-city Jakarta). I tried 4 of these during my one-month stay and had sessions with a variety of very hot women (19-24), all BB with pics. But I much preferred my sugar dates as they were, well - dates.  If I ever go back, I'll still use the spas for point-and-click sessions, or as a backup option. But I will invest most of my time in Sugaring.  

 
However, I've already decided my next trip (Feb '26) will be back in the Philippines.

 
Life is good

 
The Cat