I am healthy, physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I am going to turn 50 this fall, is it a dorky idea to continue being a provider? I have been a provider for the past 3 years, and I have always enjoyed my clients.
 The thread from that guy asking about turning 50 got me thinking...maybe I ought to ask about the (mostly)female side of this. Menopause isn't such a terrible thing, actually I like some of the changes. What else should I expect? Is it time for me to throw in the towel and buckle down for spinsterhood? Are there any 60, 70, 80 year old providers out there?
 I don't want to quit what I enjoy, sure don't feel 50, and am very curious to hear your opinion and suggestions.
 Thanks,
 Rose

Dear RoseMallowe,

I think you should do EXACTLY what you feel like doing and be happy about your decision. Forget about the 50 issue - as long as you enjoy your clients and they enjoy you, who cares about your age?

In fact, some women feel just fine once the more radical physical changes of menopause are done and over with - in fact, to some women it's downright liberating to know that potential childbearing is a thing of the past.

YES, I know for A FACT that there are "senior" providers out there . And I also know that they are working, quite successfully I might add. Of course their expectations and earning power may be different from ladies in their 20s and 30s, but that doesn't stop them from providing excellent service and enjoying their work.

My concern for you would be that you make sure your kitty is lubricated properly if it's going to have some wear-and-tear. Using E3 (estriol, a natural, bioidentical estrogen, available from bioidentical hormone practitioners) is excellent as a suppository and keeps vaginal tissues moist. Same with DHEA suppositories, also available through compounding pharmacies (forget Big Pharma, they'll just shove you full of artificial stuff).

Other than that, I'd say that women who have regular sex consistently show better vaginal muscle tone than their abstaining sisters. In addition, regular sex is GOOD for your mental state of mind in general and your self-esteem in particular. Just make sure that you advertise yourself as someone "mature" and don't fudge too much on your age, that tends to disgruntle hobbyists. Stick to reality and present it as deliciously as possible.

Have a great time dollface and enjoy being A SENSUAL WOMAN,
The Love Goddess

and they are as hot as can be.

If your photo is a good representation of yourself, then you should not worry about age being a factor at all.

Gals get better with time.

Thanks mrfischer, those pictures of me are in the last six months.

I agree with the mental state of mind being better with regular sex!
Thanks, LG, for the reassurance!
It seems like I have more of a sense of self, and satisfaction with myself these days. And I like it! It is as if some things in life just plain don't matter anymore and now I feel more free because of that.

I am 59.  I perfer age appropriate ladies.  My Favorites are (I believe) in their 50s or close to.  They are trim & fit & sexy...   I would continue as long as you enjoy what you do.  (Wish you were closer!!)
jtp

...and a complete freak in the bedroom. I learned a lot from that lady.

Rose --

You should base your provider decisions on how you feel physically and how you feel about yourself, not some arbitrary number on the calender.  If you feel good and are having fun, 50 is no reason to stop providing.

I turned 50 this year and that fact has only provided me a point to use when chiding the younger guys I play hockey with.

Have fun, be safe, and keep going til it's not fun anymore.

one is 62, the other 58, both with bodies for which any 4o years old would envy them. And they are mentally mature, sexually very experienced, totally uninhibited and deliciously naughty.

I had a fantastic time. As a previous post stated, I prefer age appropriate providers.  I've had my AARP card for almost a decade.

I am in my early 50s and even though the virtual candy store here offers all sorts of options, I am continually drawn to the "mature" providers

I think this will negate reviews or posts regarding your age. There seems to be a glass roof, 41-45 is acceptable to many while they scoff at 50. I have seen posts where the provider is vilified for looking 50 while still saying she is 40 in her ads. The cougar hunters both in the hobby and civie seem to also prefer under 50. Just be honest in your ads and profile.

1)  Porn star Aunt Peg (Juliet Anderson) had a profile here with the most recent review about 2008.  She died recently in her 70s.  According to the reviews she was providing BJs not  FS, perhaps because of physical problems.

2)  I am seeing a civie who is 80+.  She takes hormone pills, gets as wet as any female I have experienced, and is multiorgasmic.  Utilizing my oral abilities (I do tongue exercises) she orgasms for 30+ minutes nonstop.

3)  I grew up a few hundred miles south of you.  I left almost 40 years ago.  Life, especially sex, is a lot nicer in Southern California.  Move here.

I'm 43 and have seen providers who admit to being older than me, and one I have seen is certainly over 50.

What is my experience? That they are damned good.

I realize that in the mating marketplace that youth equates to attraction to some degree so guys will often go after the youngest ladies; but I'm not selecting a mate. Rather, I am selecting a woman on the basis of character, personality, intellect, etc. whose company I believe I will enjoy. And I have never gone wrong in selecting a lady older than me.

In addition to being comfortable, self-directed and more; I have found the older providers to be very knowledgeable and enthusiastic sex partners. And for a longer appointment where you take a lady to dinner or something? They are a joy. There's one provider a tad older than me that I took to lunch before the session and she was just so great to be around that I was a bit hesitant about taking her back to her room and going into "gfe" mode. But when we got back, that sort of artificial romance mode never came to pass, and instead it was just a continuation of herself, just BCD and really enjoyable.

I don't ask providers to see their licenses, so I can't guarantee their ages; but I figure if a lady admits to being older than me, she probably isn't lying about that. And these ladies are still really great at what they do, collect their fees and get great reviews.

I'll also point you to a post-menopausal provider whose reviews are to-die-for. Men wait in line to see this lady because she is so extraordinarily good.

So my advice is to not throw in the towel. So long as you are enjoying the work and getting bookings -- keep doing it!