We've all been so busy dealing with the logistics and pitfalls of our hobby. I miss the stories of success that used to be so prominently featured on this board. Lets hear some.
I miss those as well! Was always a fun read.
Over time, and it hasn't been that long really, I'd agree that the success stories on this board have dwindled, while the frustration stories seem to have increased. As a general rule, in my part of the country anyway, it seems like the majority of SA SB postings are from youngsters (as in age 25 or less), who more often than not come across as flighty, and that's if they aren't outright scams to begin with. Yup, gems can be found, but at what investment of time/effort. Seems to me that if one likes to conjugate with hot young things, then it's hard to beat the success rate one can enjoy by contacting hotties with a history here on TER. I've set my search parameters on SA at minimum age 29, where experience has shown me that I'll at the least most likely be interacting with a mature adult, and the pool of candidate profiles shrinks to almost nothing.
Personally I haven't had that problem, either in the hooker world or the SB world. I don't know if I am just lucky or if many of you are just going about this wrong. Sure there are flaky hookers and flaky SBs of all ages.
Maybe some of you guys should look at this like fishing. Who is going to catch more fish, the guy sitting on the dock with a single line in the water or the professional captain who is trolls the waters with an array of outriggers and downriggers allowing him to have a dozen different lines in the water at all different depths?
I think a lot of guys get all invested in a single POT and then get frustrated and discouraged if things don't work out with her while the successful SD's constantly have a half dozen SB's on the string and if they lose even half of them they still have no worries about getting blue balls. It's really not that time consuming to shoot out a dozen introductory messages and then just wait to see who responds. If a POT SB shows signs of being BSC, a scammer, or just kind of flighty, just move onto the next one, just like in the hooker world.
Speaking for myself, I have loads of success stories and I could probably get laid twice a day, every day in the Sugar Bowl if I cared to. I honestly can't understand why some of you are having so many problems here.
Yep...SB's are a numbers game pure and simple. I would prefer a more mature long-term SB, but then I want to get laid too and not for $400-$500 an hour after driving an hour or two. Once I set my age filter to what I would like and there was nothing there. So, I am content fishing in the bowl and it doesn't seem to take as much time as you would think.
Almost every day, I use the search function to screen for NEW SBs that have just joined over the previous day. Then I change and do RECENTLY ACTIVE and go back over the previous 24 hours. If I see someone that I feel is a POT SB, I message them a short message asking what sort of arrangement are they looking for. Takes all of 30 min before I go to work.
Then I check during the day using my tablet to see if there are any responses. If I get one that sounds good, I tell them exactly what I am looking for.
I am now able to set up at least one meet and greet or a date every week, sometimes 2.
This week I have had 2 meet and greets and having a BCD with one of them in about an hour. Hopefully I can post a success story next time I'm on.
The way you are approaching it I bet you could see even more POT SB's than one or two a week if you wanted to, especially if you live in a decent sized city. I live in a tiny city of barely 100,000 and I can get laid every day if I want to, but at my "advanced age" I am fine with getting laid "most days" and I can do that for about the same money that most "hobbyists" spend to see a hooker once or twice a month.
It's probably a good thing I don't live in Dallas anymore, with thousands and thousands of POT SB's to choose from I would most likely be seeing a new POT SB every single day and I would probably never get any work done between finding new SB's and fucking the ones I've already met.
Thanks. Yes, I could probably see more but my work schedule is a tad restrictive. I work 9a-9p 7 out of 14 days (and I commute an hour each way, so much of my availability is daytime rather than evening. Also, my town only has about 40k year-round residents and is a destination resort area not on the way to anywhere. So, I am also drawing from about an hours drive away. Right now, this kinda works for me and keeps my budget under control. LOL
What's BSC mean? And what's flighty behavior look like from a SB?
I have tried two post at least 2 rather interesting stories in the last 3 weeks and they have been blocked by Admin for TOS violations. I've re-read the TOS and my posts several times and I can't figure out which specific clause's panties I am twisting to get me blocked.
I'm send by PM if anyone is interested...