Not sure if this is considered a rival or we can post here, but there is an interesting sugar lifestyle forum on re-***
What is different is that you have a fair mix of men and women, new and experienced Some girls ask for advice on their profiles or pictures (maybe a long shot but you might find someone fresh of you're in the area).
Another useful feature is a thread on PPM/allowances in various area. Obviously it's all over the map but shows there seem to be SBs for every budget.
Fun to read, especially for those new to the bowl.