Just trying to see if it is me or the norm. Have been doing this for close to a year, had a couple of great meets, and a couple not so good. Made some friends along the way.
In talking with with most SB’s, I have noticed none have had a father figure in their life or they experienced a major life changing event as a child. Could have these events created a lack of love, trust or of lack of security? Below is just a couple of observations.
SB-1 adopted from as a small child from Venezuela, never met her birth parents. Her parents here appear to have given her a good life, however I sensed her step brother (biological) was the favorite.
SB-2- Never knew her dad, mom immigrated from Asia, she became pregnant and dad took off. Her mom had 4 other kids with different men. She has no relationship with her siblings and a strained one with her mom.
SB-3 Parents divorced when she was 6 or 7, father had zero involvement growing up or till this day. Raised by her Mom.
SB-4 Parents Divorced when she was a teenager, Dad ran off with his assistant. She disowned him and his side of family.
There is definitely a correlation here and some similarities, unless It’s just me, lol.
Curious to see if anyone else noticed this same trait with their SB’s.