I am not a smoker. I tried cigarettes in high school and never went back. I also tried weed in high school and never got high, so I left that behind as well. I even went through a cigar phase in my 30's but I got tired of the smoke stinking up my place.
My Seeking filters are set for non-smokers. I don't want to deal with it, the breath, the ashes, the dead butts, and the rest. However, some of my past (and current) SB's are/were vapers, either with or without weed. And occasionally an SB will lie on her profile but thankfully, will not smoke around me or in my home. But it seems that almost every girl (under 40) vapes today while they say they do not smoke (tobacco).
Vaping really doesn't bother me much, with the slight annoyance of occasionally finding the cartridges or device left at my place, requiring me to save them for our next date (and hide them when a different SB is coming to my place). If she needs to toke a bit of weed to have a good time BCD with (fat, ugly, old) me, I am enough of a pragmatist not to mind. I have more than once been asked by my date to stop at a Weed store on our way somewhere so she can buy vape supplies. No problem, and here's $20 to help cover the cost. (I have NO IDEA if that it too little, too much, or spot on. LOL)
But once in a while I add the light-smokers to my search. And wow! There are some excellent POT's around that I have missed. I'd still prefer to avoid smokers but given the ongoing challenges we all face in finding a new POT, I may need to permanently include light smokers in my search and then add some discussion during the M&G about how to deal with it.
Two topics for discussion:
1. Do you use any smoking filters in your search? If you do, which ones? If you also smoke, do you inform/discuss with a POT prior to (or during a) meeting?
2. Do you care if she vapes? Do you vape? With or without weed? Would you like to see a Vaping filter added?
Life is good
The Cat