Actually she did try to reschedule the other guy 75 minutes in front of me. So I would've had real sloppy seconds
I know this is an asshole move but eventually you get tired of being played. Ive seen this hot Brazilian "SB" maybe 6 times. 6 feet tall. Lots of fun but always had to to deliveries after our dates so it was always kinda rushed. When we first met she also was chatting with a guy I knew. He never hooked up but she was messaging him. Eventually things all timed out. She wanted to see us on the same evening. Booked us both at the same time. Different locations. So we decided to see how this would play out. Originally both had 6pm appointments. She switched him to 7:45 and kept me at 6. I said I had to switch to 6:30 thinking she would push him back. Nope. She asked him if he could do 5:30. . So I hour apart less driving time. Plus a few months ago she had told both of us, anal after the first date. Ive not seen that on any dates but he offered him it after the first date. After telling me no again tonight. So I canceled. She canceled him and her 800 night turned into zero. Im thinking wannabe or semi pro. Not a "SB".
Let's be clear, the difference between sugar dating and escorting is in this example. We aren't on a timer, a client to schedule in, etc. of she's just gonna fuck a guy real quick for cash that's escorting. If that's how she wants to live that's her call.
But be clear on what you want. If you are ok with this, who cares? If not, then make a change.
Oh no. Im definitely not OK with it. That's why I decided to fuck around with her. Back to back is ridiculous. She said she had to leave early once too many times with the delivery excuse. When she texted my buddy I told him lets see if she'll do back to back. She was worse than I imagined.
I have certainly had SB's in the past who were seeing other SD's or BF's (in one case Hubby). As far as I know, none of them were scheduling back-to-back (no pun intended) fuck sessions. None of them where juggling schedules like they worked at Cirque du Soleil, either.
The only exception was with my Latina SB about 3 years ago when her BF completely failed to get her off through oral and she was so frustrated she drove directly to my place for 2+ hours of mind-bending DATY. Didn't even want allowance - just wanted to get her cookies. (Of course, I still handed her the allowance as my load was leaking onto her thigh because I am a gentleman.
The question still to be answered: Do you care more about her "job" or the (for lack of a better term) poor customer service?
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I care about the BS excuses to end our fun after an hour everytime. I see SBs because I like longer dates
Thankfully this is an outlier. A bad bit of vetting on Sympathy's part but then again how would one know? That you happened to know the other guy in the equation seems too coincidental to be true. This is the kind of behavior we like to get away from when we engage in true sugar relationships. Good to always be on guard for such unfortunate situations like this, however difficult it might be to detect. Better luck in vetting of character moving forward, Sympathy! Caveat emptor!
It wasn't a coincidence. We had a group of at one time was about 6 guys that met on a different chat board start a SB chat. We shared info on different SBs that might be if interest to filter out the bots and delusional ladies. This lady contacted both of us in June.
Thats always the question. How many other guys are in her rotation.
Actually she did try to reschedule the other guy 75 minutes in front of me. So I would've had real sloppy seconds
On top of that you'd have to pay for it. Talk about getting screwed twice.
Almost all of my SB's arrive freshly showered and clean. And they use my shower after BCD and before they leave.
I will add that I make a point of making my bathroom girl-shower friendly. I lay out 2 fresh towels, a new toothbrush, mini toothpaste, and mouthwash, and I have sensitive skin body wash, plus girly shampoo and conditioner on hand as well.
The idea is to help her avoid the feeling of a "ho walk" as she heads home. Does it work? I have no idea. But they do tell me the appreciate the thoughtfulness.
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I play exclusively in hotels but always have a new mini toothpaste, new toothbrushzand travel sized mouthwash in the bathroom.
Herb is so right about it. These little small touches matter.
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