I've been rampaging on SA for 2 months and it's literally taking a toll on my health (as well as my wallet). But I still have to ask the question: should I be on any OTHER sites besides SA?  

I know there are a few -- are any of them worthwhile or will I just be seeing dupes of the same SB's?  

I'm in L.A., if that matter.  

Thanks!

And the consensus seems to be no other site is worth wasting your time or money on. Secret Benefits is beginning to look nearly credible, but in my area there are VERY few profiles there, most unatractive, the rest old enough to seem inactive.  Seeking is still the Best, possibly the only game in town.

Copy that. Thanks very much! I'll stick to my very mild habit of spending 2 hours a day on SA.

Oh crap, I can't. As usual that old fucker is absolutely correct.lol

 
I also will chime in about SB. I will agree it is "starting" to look legit, I still have yet to meet any POT SB's that are "only" on SB, but I have met a few lately that are on both sites, and I have also seen a few SB profiles of SB's that I have already met, AND have been BCD with that I met off SA before ever seeing them on SB.

 
One thing to keep in mind about SB is the fact that while there aren't a lot of hotties there (Yes, Sweetman was right about that too), it costs next to nothing to belong to the site. They ran a special a few months ago where I got a thousand credits for a hundred bucks or so. This will allow me to reach out to a hundred different POT SB's to see if any of them are worth pursuing. I don't know how often they run those specials, but I am sure it will take me a year or more to run through those thousand credits and if I find even a single actual SB that I would not have otherwise I am sure I will consider it a hundred bucks well spent/

 
And yes, one of the benefits to TER being almost dead is that it gives me so much more time to feed my  "mild SA habit" just like you. lol

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Not very impressed with SB.
Most of the profiles are very old, the girls don't hang around very long, and many are also cross-listed on SA.
Been mostly a time waster for me, so I long since dropped out.
If you guys are having success,  might browse back over to see if anything has improved.

I signed up for SB but never bought credits or whatever. But that did get me a profile and I would get hits from chicks. I couldn't read their messages without paying do I never found out what they were saying. You'd get two notices, once when they viewed your profile and once when they sent a message.  What was odd was that they also sent me a message if they viewed my profile. To me that seems unlikely. On SA many would view but far fewer would initiate contact.  I suspected hanky panky. But on the other hand I did get a message from someone I had already met through SA.  So some were probably legit. I'd used a different name on SB so she didn't know we'd already met.