I'm in my 70s, and so is my partner.  Sex is wonderful, including oral, both ways.  No anal, but not missed.  One tiny problem, though:  my partner is very reluctant to let me touch her breasts during sex, especially the nipples.  I'm a boob guy from 'way back, and this bothers me.  How can I encourage her to loosen up on this point, so to speak?

How nice that you two keep those fires burning, youngoldguy,

In fact, they could be burning a little too hot for your partner's nipples - when we get older, we get either more sensitive or lose sensation somewhat, take your pick. So if she's in the touchy camp, you'll need to put some kind of barrier between you. For a compromise, how about putting her in a very sheer nightie? That way, you can fiddle with her breasts through the fabric. Yes, I know - it's not MSC [maximum skin contact] but it's better than not touching them at all. Plus she may like the feel of something silky soft against her skin.

A final note - go very, very easy on the nipples, even if through fabric,
The Love Goddess

in the breast area.

my TER provider # is 850

Intrigued by your TER number but when I went to it the message said information no longer available.  Are you still active?

LG, you hit the nail on the head!  She is much more receptive to contact through a pajama top.