A new profile just popped up in my area, a nice looking 18yo girl.  The young ones always get my attention, so I clicked and read her profile, in which she revealed she's currently 22 weeks pregnant!  Yikes!  She sounds like she has a positive attitude about everything, and she's obviously dtf.  But it's hard for me to imagine that her needs, both emotional and financial, are only going to skyrocket as her term approaches and after the kiddo is born.  So I'm giving her a big pass.  I wonder though, if y'all have had experiences with pregnant girls and how the arrangements progressed.

So it's a pass for me.  I prefer long term arrangements and dating with a newborn is impossible.

There are 2 scenarios here. First, one of my current SB's got pregnant by her BF last December.  Once she decided to keep it I shifted from SD to supportive friend while she tried to figure out to proceed with an unsupportive BF (he tried REALL hard to get her not to have it) and a dysfunctional family.  I have bought her a few baby items, and an occasional $50 for gas, but no BCD's and no allowance.  She is due in 2 days. I shall not be present nor shall I visit her in the hospital. Still not sure what I will do if/when she wants to bring the kid to my place.  

 
Next, there are new POT's who mention they are preggers in their profile. There was one Preggers POT in my area last year. Twenty-three, half Asiam half white, quite pretty and about 4 months along.  

 
We messaged a few times before moving to text. By text she was DTF for a reasonable allowance. She lived reasonably close and agreed to a M&G. Confirmed the day before. The day of confirmed again in the morning but no reply. And no show.  

 
About 2 months later her profile popped up again. I messaged by text but no reply.  

 
To address your question head on, I would approach this like any other arrangement, with a few exceptions. I'd make it clear that I am not going to be around for anything like child support after. And I'd make it clear that I am not available for non-date activities like rides to a doctor, shopping for baby stuff, etc.  And I'm guessing I'd politely move on once she got to around the end of the 8th month.  

 
Here's a fun exercise: Clear all of your search filters except location and radius.  The search for keyword "pregnant" or "preggers"

 
Prior to the new AI-Cop system, I could usually see about 4-10 profiles within greater LA (50 miles).  Today, I see 9, but some have been inactive for far longer than 9 months.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat  

There is a nasty pregnancy kink out there. Several SBs I met over the years mentioned that some SDs they talked to (not dated), were specifically looking to make the SB pregnant. They wanted to have sex with a pregnant woman, with the concept being that they would later fund an abortion. They and I were shocked - they did not date these men.

That is about as shocking as any bad behavior I've heard in almost 20 years of sugaring!  

 
There are so many things wrong with this, and at the top of the list is the inherent physical and psychological danger to the women from an abortion.  I am definitely pro-choice, but abortion as a PRIMARY act of birth control is just bad for everyone.  

 
Next are the risks to both parties (and their families) of the plan falling apart.  

 
I am generally not an advocate of reporting bad users to site admin. But this is just straight up predatory and these wakadoodle assholes (and possibly criminals) need to be expelled asap.  

 
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The Cat

Barf

Maybe I am hopelessly naive but there is a lot of crazy shit be put out there these days that is simply hardly believable. Like the BLS rigging employment statistics. Probably 40% of the country believes that bullshit.  Be careful what you believe these days. It’s becoming much most difficult to discern the truth