I mentioned before how many secret submissive women there are out there. Today I was going over old conversations that had stalled on Secret Benefits. You never know if they just got buried by responses. So one in a while I'll ping them with something if we hadn't reached an earlier conclusion (like too expensive, or platonic only, etc.)
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So this one 30's divorced mom who billed herself as a girl next door type, loved to laugh, etc, had kind of a meh response to my first inquiry. Said she might email me someday. That was maybe a week or two ago. I thought I'd do a ping on her and said "Extra points if you are submissive." So girl next door literally answers in less than a minute (a world record response time on just about any site I've been on) and said "Brat." Brats are submissives who act battery because they crave punishment. So she wasn't going to mention her submissive side until I brought it up. She may well have brought it up later had the convo gone in a more positive direction. But it was her little secret.
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So anyhow now her interest is piqued and she says she enjoys the punishment aspect. So we'll see where it goes, but if you are into that, you often have to make the first suggestion or it'll never come up.
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I look forward to giving her a good flogging. We'll see.
Well that first one is still in the deciding stage. But I tried the same line on a second chick and yeah, it worked. We had a nice play session. Some chicks dig being submissive.
In one pic she was wearing a T-shirt that said "Choke me like Bundy eat me like Dahmer." I asked her if she was submissive. She said "Very!" Am now trying to find out in just what ways. Sound like this could be fun.
She had the word "sub" in her otherwise standard profile on SA (she also has a profile on SB without the word sub.) I'm always looking for good submissives. A lot of time they end up being too pricey. She wanted $450 but couldn't host so I told her that with hotel costs on top of the $450 it was too rich for my blood. She immediately dropped to $350.
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So I continued to chat with her via text. I progressively advised her what sort of activities I would be interested in. She never objected to any of the. So it looks like we have a date for this Wednesday.
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I also was chatting with a 41 year old. She also seemed to agree to everything I suggested (pretty wild stuff.) But then at the last minute she turns out to be a 2 hour drive away. That was a disappointment. She might visit the cities she said, so that one is on the back burner.
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The 23 year old might be a bit chubby. The 41 year old has huge knockers -- she sent me a picture of her oiling them up. Anyhow, this fits my observation that bigger chicks are more likely to be submissives -- wild submissives. I'm not into obese, but bondage on skinny chicks doesn't look as erotic to me. A bondage chick should have big tits. It just looks better.