I recently renewed my membership and have messaging some pots.  Met a couple but nothing worth pursuing.  I had one scheduled for a meeting and greet tonight but there were early yellow flags.

1) Mentioned early on that she didn't have sex on the first date.  This came out of the blue, not previous discussion about sex, so I just said, no problem. But something about it triggered my spidey senses that she could be one of those that wants to string you along.

2)  Last night, asked if I could help with babysitter.  Her profile indicated she had kids.  I said ok and asked how much.  This is where I knew it was probably going to be a problem but thought I'd play it out.  She didn't know and would have to ask her babysitter (red flag, you have kids and do not know what it would cost for a babysitter?).  She asked what I would be comfortable with.  Again, I thought play it out and let's see where it goes.  I offered $100.  She said okay.  

3) Tonight a few hours before our date, she texts me and says my babysitter said $150 are you okay with that.  That was the last straw.  I told her no and that I was not interested in going on further.  Just one too many flags.

Plus lately, I've started getting scam text on my GV number.  They generally come after encounters like this.  They say I am Billy Bob Joe the manager of the escort site.  You've been costing me money wasting my girls time.  How are you going to make this right.  I have your info etc. etc. etc. smh.  I think I've gotten 3 or 4 of  these over the last month.  The name is different every time. lol

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