Ok, I went premium again as my pot got exhausted. Met two girls so far, both have great rocking bodies, one Filipino doesn't have the best teeth so DFK may not be as exciting as I would like it to be and the other Persian has braces to fix her teeth which is also an issue with BBBJ and DFK I suppose. There is beautiful Russian but her availability conflicts with my schedule. And there are couple of latinas that require a longer drive. Anyways, I am busy right from the get go. So SA sure is legit and proper way of finding arrangements.

Never bring your SB home. If things go sour and she is BSC, she can come to your house and create a scene. Plus, you are married. Women have a sixth sense when it comes to sensing another woman invading her territory: different perfume smell, a strand of hair of different color in your bed, etc. Not to mention nosy neighbors can create problems too. Get a hotel room, the little money saved is not worth the potential hassles.

I know a few guys who have done it and survived, but the neighbors may see something, there may be a fragrance or hair left behind, or other problems may crop up.  I recommend an inexpensive, but decent, hotel.

If the answer is no, then the answer to bringing SB's home should be HELL NO!!!

GaG, thanks for the input, man.

a divorce will run you including alimony.

good idea, I should look into that.

Ask yourself this, just how much do you have to lose by getting caught? If the answer is "a LOT" then don't do it.

So what chains are inexpensive and decent?
I use hotels when I am out of town as using hotels in my own town makes it look fishy if someone sees you coming out of a hotel/motel place.

And bringing one home is nuts. I  do it because Im single and dont care. But you are inviting a total stranger into your home. You know nothing about her. Dont do it. The percentage of these ladies that arent somehow damaged goods is very low imo.

I guess the only SBs I can see are the ones who can host. Or just stick with providers.

Condo is a good idea, an extended stay studio would also work. I would rather take a SB on a trip with me; going to local hotels is sorta risky too unless I find hotel miles away.

But I realize our relationship is unusual.  I have brought hookers as well as SBs home.  Usually when my wife is off with one of her lovers.  We have an open, honest poly relationship.  I do try to be discreet since we don't want to embarrass each other with prying questions from nosy neighbors, but it's not a huge problem.  

You seriously believe that a SB is gonna feel less whorish when you fuck her in your trailer rather than a hotel lol?
Btw, I use hotels/motels all the time and the sex is not diminished or "transactional" due to that setting. In fact, a lot of girls are excited by the "illicit" nature of the encounter.

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If you use AirBNB, you usually can develop relationships with the people renting out their rooms/apartments, etc. and go direct to them (going around AirBNB).  When you do that, you can get a cheap room/apartment of a day or two.

I am also single, and I also bring SB's and pro's home.  But even single, it's not risk free.  

You are lucky to have a poly relation with your wife. Though most men would like to have affairs but still won't allow their wives to have fun. But I do see many "married but looking" women on SA too

Really like the idea of the RV, especially with all the amenities of home. And the mobility, home delivery is available. Adventurous SB's probably like that idea. Agree with others, if you don't bring providers home because of the wife, SB's definitely not a good idea. Never know what BSC motives lie underneath. Hasn't been an issue for me with either since fortunately I'm not married. The part with SB's that's nice is we can stay in and have made dinner together and the sleepovers are nice. Still enjoy providers, hadn't seen one for several months and met up with one of my past faves the other evening after my first date with a milf sb went in the tank, and was reminded of how well they really can rock and roll.

I have a 40 foot Carver on Lake Mead. I take them there first. If they pass the BSC test then I will bring them to the house but like others I am single and really have nothing to lose.  

Thanks Everyone, I guess almost unanimous suggestion is to keep SBs away from home. So I am going to try the hotel day rooms on between9and5 or bookadayroom web sites.