I started to communicate with a POT SB and while exchanging info I asked her about her experience in the sugar bowl and she tells me that her last sugar daddy became his boyfriend. They moved together and after a year they split. In my experience I believe that something like that is not that difficult to happen since you get to know each other in a more personal way. I like to hear from the guys any stories that turned into a real relationship.
I have a couple of arrangements right now where we've grown pretty close. Not crossing the line for all kind of reasons, but in several cases I've been with women who might have been open to it...there's a subset of SBs who genuinely adore older men. Though I suspect $$ would still be involved and duration likely to prove shorter than a year...
She just didn't want to be "owned" she loved to fuck and liked being taken out for the "good stuff"
She fucked me on the first date and I saw her for quite sometime and never once did she ask for a penny. I would have been more than happy to give her money, but she mentioned from the beginning she didn't want to be treated "like a prostitute" and that she was not interested in money.
Hey it happens.
BTW, it can also happen with hookers, although the jump from SD/SB to BF/GF is a much smaller leap.
That was 12 years ago, 2 years + ago we got married.
She retired from the hobby years ago, but I still do with her blessing.
Maybe it works well because we live 1500 miles apart.
I like playing the field and variety to some extent, but mainly what I look for in an SB is someone who is a "part-time girlfriend"-material. I usually like to repeat with my SBs and so I try to cultivate a friendship relationship with them to enhance the physical and mental connection. If I find someone I genuinely enjoy spending time with, I will repeat and see them exclusively, although I don't require that they see me exclusively and I don't ask about it.
I have seen my current SB now 4 times and we are very much enjoying each other and getting to know each other. Each time I see her, I find out new things that she likes/dislikes and "makes her tick". She, in turn, also opens up about her life, past relationships, etc... Imo this enhances the time we spend together. Now, of course, I am married, so boundaries are clearly drawn and I would never refer to her a "my girlfriend" since there is still a P4P aspect to our relationship, but I am definitely looking for the GFE and that is the type of arrangement I personally find most satisfying.
The best time of any relationship/arrangement is when it is new and exciting. At some point I know that she and I will tire of each other or she will move away, etc and things will come to an end... and at that point, I will be on the hunt for a new SB, which is exciting and fun in its own way. Until that time, i personally like just finding 1 woman who fits my needs and "floats my boat" to get to know and have a genuine affection for.
Again, this is just what works for me. I won't say that it's rare, but this type of arrangement is a little harder to find, so when I find someone I really click with, I am much more motivated to keep them happy, treat them right, and see them as often as I can. I would never "catch feelings" for an SB, but I certainly have found a couple that have been very intoxicating and keep me coming back for more. An ATF all the way, so to speak.
Hey guys,
I have a girl right now that I had lunch with, we really got along great. She is 28 and in med school - no question she is telling truth- have seen her books, and many photos of her in ER. Sounds legit. So we she told me that she was hoping for 1K a month for unlimited time together. She didn't want money to limit how ofter she could see me. So we txt back and forth for about a week or so, and I just wasn't up for a monthly kind of thing so I emailed her. Told her that I am sorry for wasting her time but I am not SD material and couldn't really swing it.
She completely changes her tune and just says that she really wants to see me and how about if we drop the support altogether. Just forget the money and come and F me. I am a firm "Too good to be true" kind of person. Not sure what I should do here. Is this just a set up for some kind of money scam??
What's the downside to trying? I'd be curious. There's a subset of women on SA are in situations where they can't mess around with workmates or in their communities, and are really looking for an AM-type affair to meet their sexual needs.
Mine is like a girlfriend. Forgot how much drama a girlfriend can have. They love their money
and want a lot of extras. You have to weigh the sex when I want it against the extras and the drama.
There shouldn't even be a second thought here, especially if you've met and vetted her. I think you'd be crazy to not at least give her a shot.
Yeah that a setup to get you on the hook for 18yrs of child support.....
Good point! So go for it, but you might wanna bring your own condom and avoid the one with the pinhole in it.
Ok, so I went out with her again and really leveled with her about my situation. Told her that I was sorry I wasted her time but decided it was crazy for me to spend this kind of money when I need to be putting money away for my divorce and college for kids. She said lets just eliminate the support payments - she said that she liked me and just wanted to see each other anyways.
I was very skeptical but thought I would give it a try. She is in her 2nd year of pre med, and does nothing but sleep, study and is doing lots of time in the hospital. Everything completely checked out and is legit. Went out to dinner on Sat. and ended up at hotel for 2 rounds of HOT HOT fun. She can't get enough and said that her sex drive is off the charts. She is a little nerdy but hot body and smoking hot BCD.
I found something great and am very lucky. I will ride this out as long as I can.
Fuck yeah, dude! Congrats!
Hey guys,
So I have to admit that the few times that I had read about guys getting a SB to just turn into a regular free and willing GF I figured that you were just full of shit. lol Well luck is with me - just at a much needed low time in my life. Going through a divorce at the moment and all that goes with it. Troubling time for me. I met this SB about a month or 2 ago and kind of backed out on her once we had discussed the arrangement. She claimed that she just wanted to see me anyways - no pay. Since, we have seen each other 5 times and the sex is passionate and hotter than anything I have honestly ever had. She comes out to my brother's house to see me which is 45 minutes her house (My bro is out of town 3-4 days a week) for amazing sex. Her appetite is 10 times mine - she is just a machine. Her body is a honest 9, but her face is more like a 7. I am still pinching myself after each time I see her. It can happen guys, you never know.
Thanks for all of the info and help on this board.