The other day I was texting one of my SB’s and she texted a “who is this” reply. I was taken aback because she is a regular. So before she got my reply saying who I was she texted an apology. Apparently she broke her old phone and lost all her contacts. (Don’t these girls know how to backup their iPhone?) in any case, she googled my number to see if she could find who was texting her. She found my pic and number on a predator alert website. Good thing I don’t use my real phone number. But it was quite disturbing to see my name and pic there. The pic was from my SA profile, from the hidden pics. So based on the date it was uploaded to this site, I deduced it had to be this SB that I met only once. I remember her being very pretty, 22 and slim. Everything went fine except she had no personality. So a few days after we met she kept asking to see me again. In my way of trying to be nice about it, I told her that I was seeing another SB and couldn’t handle another at this time. Not really true but was trying to be nice about not wanting to see her anymore. She replied with a nasty comment. Then she must have uploaded the info onto a predator site. So, this is one nasty girl. Scorned SB’s can easily go BSC.
So how do you guys tell a SB that you no longer want to see them?
From what I've heard, I think the "predator" web sites are a scam where people (or maybe even bots) create SB profiles, get SDs to reveal private pics, and then scrape them and post the SD info to the predator site. The scam is that you can pay $$ to either the site or some associated site to be cleaned off of it.
I mean, it could have been your specific SB, but the impression I got was that it was just a wholesale fake profile scam, not like a blacklist that people really post to other than as part of the scam.
OK, ironically I just showed up on the site. Right cell (text) number, right first name, wrong city, and a photo but of some other guy. Obviously the text number and name are both 'burner' info.
I found out because I got a text from some random number that says "we were posted on predatorsalerts.com/my-text-number, you were by my profile. guaranteedremoval.com deleted mine. someone said we were paying women."
So, makes me curious, since the first name and text match I think it came from somewhere SA related, but since it doesn't have a photo that makes it presumably someone who has my SA name and my text number but not a photo (I have no photos, public or private, on SA). Someone who just swept SA wouldn't have the text number, and someone who was trying to be evil that I was corresponding with presumably would use a picture if they had one. There are only a couple of SBs who have my text number but not any pictures. One of them went pretty BSC in our first meeting, so maybe her.
Kind of glad that the BSC one never asked for a picture ...
Even if this predator site is bogus. How do you tell a SB you no longer want to see them? I had one, who I never actually met, go super critical BSC when I declined to have coffee with her! Damn, I'm glad I never got involved with that one! And I've had quite a few that I met for coffee but there was no mutual chemistry so that was the end of it. But actually ending it with a SB you've been dating, one who wants to keep seeing you? That's a different matter. My usual routine is to simply stop asking them for dates, and things tend to fade away more or less naturally.
What I found amazing was within the hour of meeting me, she was texting me and sending more pics. Then about a day later and for the next week she kept asking to come over again. I tried to ignore her but after awhile I had to just say stop. And trying to let her down gently was apparently not working. Oh well... just something to watch out for with these young girls...
Haven’t had much of an issue with just contacting them less and letting it go away. I say I have work or dad duties or I’m in a financial rough spot for that month. Only had one previous atf get jealous when she was no longer my top girl. A couple of POTs or new SBs have given me nasty responses when I realize they’re no longer worth seeing but only at the texting stage and never after a meet and greet or bcd.
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