If a POT SB has taken the time to curate a wish list they are expecting POT SD's to pay for these overpriced bullshit items without ever actually meeting, let alone, dating. Add to that those wish list profiles with minimal text and you have a person who has no intent on meeting anyone. She just thinks Seeking is a money grab from simps.  

 
I just ignore the wish list as well as any mentions of a wish list if she happens to message me.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I have had amazing success by sending girls flowers...about a $100+ or so...not going to cut into my budget.
Would say my BCD probabilities afterwards has averaged 50%.
Which is more or less 2-3X what it would have been.
A couple of super hot Las Vegas types (easy 10 ratings) both accepted dates with me after the flowers.
OK - neither of those went anywhere, but you get the idea.
otoh, yeah, never send them anything else.
And, as other, more wiser guys on here would warn you: ymmv.