So why is it that SB's can have pages that are basically soliciting "Bedroom Dates Only" or "Sexy Dates Only" in exchange for money.... but SD's can make no mention of intimacy?

My account just got flagged for soliciting...  And as far as I can tell I did nothing different than what a ton of SB accounts are doing.

On a side note, they told me I need to sign their TOS to log back in.... and I can't because it throws me in a redirect loop everytime.  That's great.

I learned a long time ago that one person's idea of  "nothing wrong" is very different from another's.

They don't tell you. It was some content of some PM discussion I had. Not something in my profile.

and the POT SB must have reported you for it.

MY suggestion is to not be so blunt while using their PM system and if you want to flat out ask "How much to fuck?" do so only after getting her phone number or Email addy.

Some/most posters would get the BOD from me in a case like this, but you have already admitted how you like to put a POT SB "in her place" so my default position when something like this happens to you is that most likely YOU stepped over the line. Reputation and prior actions speak louder than words here.

I will say one thing positive about the way you deal with POT SB's, you set the bar so low that even an asshole like me ends up looking good to these POT SB's and it makes it so much easier for ME to score because compared to you, I am a "nice guy" lol Who would have ever dreamed that GaGambler would be considered a "nice" guy? lmao

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I think he must have said the wrong thing to the wrong person.  Some of my PMs have been fairly explicit, usually on the part of the SB.  I definitely think she complained.

I guess it's from years of being in the online hooker world, but yes the SB's are most definitely more explicit than I am.

Part of it also has to do with the fact that I don't want to chase off the young, new, and kind of shy and nervous POT SB's who most likely have never fucked a guy basically for money. I have had several who NEVER would have agreed to meet with me if I had treated them like a hooker, but once they relaxed and figured out that sex with an "old guy" who knew what he was doing wasn't so bad after all, but I never would have gotten to even meet them if I put them on the defensive from the very first message.

Now if a POT SB starts being explicit, I am totally fine with that and if she's a quasi hooker, I have no problem with that either.

This earlier post of his might be a small clue into his mindset and why he "might" have said something that would get him reported. lol

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it's impossible to judge the situation. All I can say is that I always find discreet language to discuss explicit activities.  And when discussung the $ugar aspects of an arrangement, never connect the gifts to any activities.

Well I don't know what I said either. lol.  I mean I have women straight say $300, whatever you want baby... I sure didn't say anything like that.  Its probably someone I told that I wouldn't pay them just to show up to dinner or meet me, who got pissed.  Anyway the site doesn't tell you what the incident was.

I can not recollect anyone running into as many obstacles as you have but IMHO, you are your own worst cock-block!

Facts are that we do not know as to how many girls get reported for blatantly obvious hookerish behavior and verbiages which can fall foul of SA's ToA. I can not fathom that the SA POT SB population consists of Evangelical Bible thumping types, so I would guess very little of those quasi hookers ever get reported but you can bet your bottom $ that many webcam / scam girls do get reported because most guys take getting scammed very serious and are not going to be all banal about it.

Also remember that most SBs do not and can not see other SB profiles so an uptight, prudish and uber sensitive SB will be offended by what may come across as a straight forward solicitation for sex and / or lewd conduct. If I had to make a bet, I would bet on something quite asinine within your unrefined repertoire! P*ss on that profile of your and the contacts which you had made as it wasn't going to go anywhere! Take time off, retool and reshape your next appearance to be more constructive and set the bar a little bit higher for yourself the next time around!

I can't imagine what you did. I reported a tranny posing as a chick and they didnt do shit. If Im discussing sex that is always coded. And usually I switch to text pretty quickly.

The nice guy observation makes sense. Hooked up with SB and had our BCD meet this week. She is hot. I asked  her why she chose me. She said, "you are normal." HAHA