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SA/SB straight from PM to text?
Myskyns 47 Reviews 562 reads
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The past few days I’ve messaged multiple ladies and the majority of them immediately ask to go to text.  I presume that are trying to get off the board for various reasons.
My first two dates did not share mobile numbers until we met each other over lunch and I’m comfortable with that.  I’ve shared my mobile with two other ladies whom I have not yet spent time BCD but will over the next week. Even though I have a separate mobile for play, I prefer to keep some distance till I have some comfort level with them.

Are you guys comfortable with going straight to text?

Any difference in the ladies that do that?

Myskyns

souls_harbor126 reads

I'd get off their message board ASAP.  That's the way you get banned, using their app to talk money, etc.

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GaGambler158 reads

Some good reasons, some not so good.

 
The women who are "semi-pros" will usually go right to text, these women are smart and sometimes right to the point and will often immediately suggest a PPM arrangement complete with the "gift" that they require. This is almost like dealing with hookers, but usually at a much reduced rate from the hooker world and usually without a clock. The reason these women want to switch from PM to text is to keep from getting kicked of the site for prostitution.

 
There is a second category of women who want to immediately switch to text and those are the scammers.  They don't want a record of them asking for money before meeting, asking for plane tickets, venmo etc etc etc. also to keep from getting kicked off the site.

 
It's been my experience that if a POT SB wants to switch to text after the very first PM, they are usually up to no good. If they wait two or three PM's before asking to switch, your odds are much better that they are either a pro or a semi pro and will actually have sex with you instead of fucking you. lol

 
Speaking strictly for myself, I don't mind going quickly to text, but with the caveat that if she won't even exchange a couple of PM's first she will almost certainly prove to have an agenda which will NOT coincide with yours. I get a lot of PM's from women, especially from quite a ways away from me where the very first PM is "hey text me @555-1212" None of those PM's have ever led to a meeting so far for me, and I only respond to them when I am bored.

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herbtcat129 reads

Agree with GaGa (as expected).  
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Getting her cell/text number in her first PM, especially if she initiated contact with me is almost always a scammer or at least a GPS-ish pro.  When I've nibbled at that bait I generally get a quick request (by text) for $500+ PPM up front, without a request for a M&G and without any other exchange of info.  No sale, thank you.  
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Although I have been thinking about trying something off script for the typical POT vetting process when this happens:  Asking her if she has a P11 or TER ID.  That may actually yield either an insta-block or some very useful info that could lead to BCD in a hurry.  If she at least knows what P11 or TER are, then her pro status is confirmed. I do have some concern about her reporting  me to SA however...  
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Anyone try this yet? It might be an interesting Post-FOSTA/SETSA tactic that works.  
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souls_harbor119 reads

I texted an SB I met twice last winter.  Couldn't see here again spring or summer due to circumstances, but thought I'd check up on her.  She said she's transitioning to escorting.  But she still has her SA and SB profiles up.  Said until she gets her website going she'll hunt on SA and SB etc, but intends to offer service terms as an escort.  One thing that changed from when I saw her as an SB is that her availability has gone from when she can to 10am to 10pm four days a week.  

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herbtcat115 reads

Assuming her pro rate is similar to what her allowance was, or that she may at least grandfather you in (pun intended :p with her old rate, sounds like you can/should be her first official regular.  
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souls_harbor117 reads

I doubt I will be her first regular.  However she did tell me (who knows if truth) that I was her first SD BCD.  

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