Anyone ever actually meet any girl off this site? Most don't look.that great anyway, but I bought credits. And I magically got messages from girls interesting enough to deplete those credits. Funny thing.... they send me a message, I reply in a timely manner, and then crickets. So maybe these girls are finding arrangements that quickly, or maybe the whole site is just a scam?
I have not yet taken the plunge and purchased credits on SB (Secret Benefits). There are nearly zero SBs on the site in my area, and none are attractive. Also, they seem to post a profile and then become inactive. So I've had little incentive to spend money there. Plus, Admin at SB is too aggressive with their barrage of "helpful" advice for sugar newbies. OK some of it is well written, but I don't need advice, thank you very much.
I'm really thinking it's just a scam.
Yea, that site is a load of crap. I tried it a few years ago. There are some real one but very very few. There was a troll on here about 4-5 months ago touting how he was 3 for 3 or some bullshit like that on SB.
Back when I tried it, I got hit up by scammers and camgirls. There was one real woman I conversed with via kik but she never was will to meet face to face.
I have met a fair number of gals from SB. At firat I thought it was BS as well but I have since revised my opinion. I like the fact that it is not time based like SA. I can hoard my credits and only answer/contact the gals I am interested in. The credits dont expire and after initial contact all future contact is free w that user. Granted, SA is more populated, but I have been lucky enough to do well with SB on SB.
I too thought it was complete BS until I started seeing some of the same girls I had met (and fucked) from SA also having profiles on SB. Unfortunately I also agree that SA is a thousand times "more populated" but in their defense SB costs next to nothing to remain a member.
It's a useless site. My experience was the same as yours, get a message, reply, ghost. Happened at least 20-30 times, or enough to burn through a 2nd credits purchase. Out of that, there was one who actually engaged in an active dialog with me and suggested a M&G. I passed as she was not really that interesting to me.
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I have since deactivated my profile and I still get the annoying emails, which go into my spam folder. Guess I'll need to delete it next.
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Life is good.
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The Cat
Exactly...I did a second credit purchase as well, so they got me twice, but that will be the last time. It's a bullshit site. I'll go ahead and but in to SA, even though it hasn't shown to be prosperous in my situation. Most of what I like on there will probably be trying to run me for 4k a month. That's a bit rich for my blood.
I’m new at this method of finding ladies and started about a week ago. In my limited time on the 3 sites, here is my experience to date.
WhatsYourPrice should be WTF because to me it is useless. Why do I want to pay to meet some lady just to discuss potentials. I was dumb to sign up but WTF! I should have listened to the advice on this board.
Secret Benefits - I’ve met one lady and setup a play-dinner-play meet in a few days. I don’t know how it will turn out but she is an attractive Latina spinner in her late 20’s so I have high hopes.
Seeking - Seems like more ladies than with Secret Benefits but some of the same. I’ve been propositioned by a few ladies (or at least the same photos) from both sites. I like the pay structure on Seeking better as I pay once and converse with whoever I choose. I have high hopes for this site.
I’m only looking (at this time) to split my time between a couple ladies.
I travel on business and wondered how this works when in a new town for only a few days. Seems like it would be tough to coordinate the meet, then actually meet and set a date. Any advice?
Also, seems like ladies sign up, send out messages, make plans and then disappear into the ether. I guess it is fun to flirt for a while and then disappear or they get cold feet and disappear.
And the one piece of advice from the board that I did listen to was where to start with the gift. The one hour to one evening ratio worked for me.
Myskyns
SB has been an absolute waste of my time...and a few bucks. I get messages, but any I have chosen to respond to.... never reply. SA billing structure raises red flags on my card, so I'm going to have to get a gift card to become a paying member. But even then, the only interest it seems to generate is from out of country women, and a few hosebags I wouldn't fuck if I were dead or threatened with death. My immediate area is just a toilet for women. And even though I have several colleges within 15 minutes to 2 hours from me, I've yet to get any interest from the hot coeds. Maybe some overweight Goth cutter girl...but that's not happening! Even if it were ON the house...
So Secret Benefits varies on your location (Florida is good)
Seeking (Arrangement) provides better coverage
Every major market will have tens of thousands of possibilities, I don't know the exact number on SB, but the one thing I can say in their favor is that you can search on that site very cheaply if you don't go messaging everyone in your area.
I haven't booked an actual date on SB, but I am flirting by text with one that I found there, we haven't made an actual date yet, but I expect to do so in the next day or two, I have to fit here in with my current rotation which is kind of full at the moment. The beauty about SB is that it costs nothing to simply lurk and you can buy a thousand credits for less than two hundred bucks when they have a special and that's enough to contact a hundred different girls. When you look at it that way it's a lot cheaper than the ninety bucks a month you pay on SA. That said, I get so much action from SA I wouldn't dream of dropping it anytime soon.
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