Hey guys - been away a bit with my more or less main girl in Europe.
Been dabbling here locally the past couple of weeks and have hooked up with two 20YO and a older (loL) 21YO.
All were BCD on the first date and it's hard to choose between them (natural firm boobs, slim, shapely bodies and very energetic!). All of them are any man's delight.
So, my question: what kind of rotations are you more experienced guys maintaining? I can recall some of the comments from last year, but actually more curious if you are still in those arrangements.
To be honest, I don't think I can handle more than two (2x per week) of these babes, but would just like to hear your thoughts and experiences.
I am still maintaining a rotation of 4-5 SB's, but I am not seeing ANY of the girls I was seeing six months ago. A couple I just got tired of, One started getting too demanding, another simply moved on herself and quit contacting me. You know, the usual things that happen in the Sugar Bowl. lol
This is kind of an overly general statement, but "on average" I try to keep an ongoing rotation of 4-5 different SBs at all times and I usually add a new one about once a month, sometimes more, sometimes less, to replace the one/s I lose to attrition. It's very easy to get into a feast/famine cycle in the Sugar Bowl, so I try not to end up juggling too many women at any one time, nor do I get complacent when i get what I think is the "perfect" rotation because you can go from hero to zero in no time if you aren't careful.
Keep in mind though, my appetite is a bit larger than yours, I prefer to see someone just about every day, so 4-5 different SBs allows me to see a different girl every day partly so none of them start thinking that they own me, and partly so I don't get bored by seeing the same girl too often.
like to exaggerate their experiences then jerk off to other hobbyist's stories.
if I had three hot 20-21 y.o. woman available, I wouldn't need anyone else's advise on how to manage the situation.
You got to be shittin' me.
Just met two 18 yo
Must be slim pickings in your part of the village
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I've been totally out of control on the site lately. Did 3 different ones on Friday (18), Saturday (20), and Sunday (19). Another one today (23). I'm at coffee meets like 5 days a week. I'm also checking the site like 15 times a day. Addicted!
I'm not getting BCD on the first date. Are your SB's Asian or White? I'm hearing that Black and Latina SB's are going BCD sooner than Asians or Whites.
GaGa - thanks, you such a great resource here!
Was looking more just for statistics, lol
Yeah, so what I insist on, is the girl meets me at my house
Strangely, less than 25% say no.
If they come, they cum!
lol
Where in the F is HerbC when I need him?
I can basically handle the girls
Just wondered how you guys handle the $$
Behold!! As the mists slowly dissipate on the horizon... Herb emerges from obscurity upon sufficient need.
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Seriously, Gents. I've just been banging and looking for a new job (got laid off).
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To answer the OP, I have settled into a two-tier rotation. First, I have 3 in my A-List (22 yr old, 4'11" insatiable spinner, 23 yr old comp sci major who REQUIRES me to cum twice no matter how long it takes, and a 35 yr old blond aspiring actress). I see one or two a week as schedules allow - I always plan at least 4-5 days in advance. Next, my B-List: The Filipino Unicorn who gets to town every 3 or 4 months (seeing her Thursday), the tiny AA spinner who does laps at a Hookah bar in PHX and comes to LA every 60 days to see family (and Daddy), and one Top-shelf A-List 22 yr old porn star who comes to LA for shoots quarterly (and who just offered to "loan" her Daddy to her 21 year old Porn Star friend - 5'4", 108 lbs, redhead - who needs a little extra sugar from time to time). I'm looking for a three way with both porn stars sometime in May - probably a two night wine tasting trip.
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Add to that the occasional excursion for a strip club VIP BJ/FS session or stripper take out and Herb is a Happy Kat!
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As to the money, well I budget from 300-600 a week for sugar and see an average of 1.5 SB's a week, usually for 300-400. The job issue is not likely to be a problem as I'm already able to retire now at my current lifestyle/budget, so getting a new gig will be nice, but not mandatory.
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Life is still good.
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The Cat
Hi Herb, great to see you here again. Your font of knowledge is impressive, as usual. You do seem to be living the life!
I can only juggle 2 at a time and that is tough with my schedule. I average two visits a week and occasionally three so I’m a laggard compared to the pack but I’m happy with where I’m at and I still have both my kidneys.
Like Gaga I try to keep 4 or 5 active all the time but unlike him I am still seeing two that I was seeing 6 months ago. Those two are 20 and 24 and both have become quite special friendships. I'm also seeing one new 20yo Asian girl regularly and one more occasionally. My own appetite has decreased some, so 2 dates per week, sometimes 3, is plenty. The girls are all very busy so if I rotate to each one every other week it works fine. I'm also chatting up a few I dated previously who are active on the site again, plus many new conversations with new prospects and coffee dates when there's enough interest. The money is not an issue. I'm dating a bit less than last year, so actually spending a bit less.
Well, that's quite interesting in that you can slot the girls with so much time between visits. I've never much luck with that - seems the minute more than a week or so passes, the girl just drifts away - I'm assuming to another SA dude.
Do you text/call them alot during the off time? Or do you find some other way to keep their interest?
A lot of SB's are busy juggling a job, a kid and school, and since I have no interest in completely supporting any of them I simply put them in my rotation as an occasional treat. And of course I am sure there are a lot of SB's who have multiple SD and rotate us the same way we rotate them, and I am fine with that. lol
I don't know about Sweets, but I find every SB is a story unto herself. Some of them like constant contact, others I treat just like a provider that I am seeing regularly and I rarely contact them unless it's to set something up.
Personally I love having a mix of one or two girls I see on a very regular basis and others that I see much less frequently, it's kind of like still being in the hooker world, only I don't see five different girls a week and I don't spend anywhere near as much money as I once did in the hobby.
I think if you pay them well, you'll keep their interest ... since that is their primary interest in this endeavor.
Gaga pretty much said it all. I find that the girls do not drift away if there's a gap between visits of more than a week. In fact, 2 weeks is normal for me. I know for a fact that most of them are seeing other guys, even the ones who insist I'm their only SD. (logical, plus I have a vast network of spies! lol).
The most extreme example is my 24yo hottie who I'll be visiting tomorrow. She was in Atlanta for a while with her newest flame, then back here to see me, then in Seattle for another lover, then back here, then she's flying to London for her British SD. She likes older guys and she likes sex, so she's having the time of her life! I admire her choices immensely.
Otoh, my 20yo Asian girl asked me for a date every week after we first went BCD. It was fun for a while, but too demanding on my schedule. So Now we're down to every 2 weeks which seems fine with her and perfect for me.