First of all, congrats on your rotation! You will always have at least one available when you desire, and that's perfect! Don't quit browsing and chatting up new potentials though. All arrangements end, but sometimes they end unexpectedly, so having some potentials on deck is useful!
As for hosting, I'm assuming you can't host yourself at home, or you choose not to. It is quite rare, in my experience, that a SB can host, and it's a special treat when she does offer. But usually, it's up to us to provide a venue. Hotels are the obvious solution, but the expense can very quickly get out of hand. And sometimes, (like yesterday for me with a new SB!) you will arrive at your venue and your date will simply fail to show up! What would otherwise be just an annoying waste of time is also a financial loss.
My solution is unconventional, but it works for me in my situation. I meet the vast majority of my dates in my RV. I can park it anonymously in any big shopping center, my date can meet me there, and we have our own cozy, comfy, private rendezvous. The girls seem to like it a lot! And if she fails to show up (like yesterday!) I simply drive home, no big deal.
In the past several years I have booked a hotel room for sugar dating exactly twice. Once when I was traveling out of town and needed a room anyway, and once locally when the RV was in the shop and I had a date with my longest term regular. Yes, running the RV costs money for gas and maintenance, but compared to regular hotel expenses, I think I'm way ahead.
I currently have Six (6), and am struggling with who to drop or how to manage.
Lately have been scheduling 4 a week (none are yet open to doubling up, which would solve the problem), but this is not sustainable for many reasons.
#1 23 yo and Latin mix, #2 23 yo Middle Eastern, #3 20 yo black #4 29 yo mixed #5 29 yo Latin #6 18 yo black
I put them in order of length of time we have been seeing. #1 and #2 expect weekly visits, the others allow me to skip weeks, but not 2 in a row.
Sadly I have to cut this in half, and have a hard time choosing. All go raw, and three of them are “full access” (unfortunately not #1 or #2).
I have never been the one to end an SR (other than one and dones).
Anyone politely ended a regular nicely w/o repercussions and somehow leaving the door open for later re-entry? I don’t want to ghost, nor make up some excuse (although that is becoming more and more likely).
