Sorry for the lame subject line for this post - my computer for some reason remembers all the subjects lines and Yahoo! searches I do, even after erasing recent activity. Gotta be careful!
Ok, so my question: I'm a 31 year old man who's become obsessed with anal sex. It's almost all I look for in my providers anymore - PSE or greek labels. As a straight man, what is the crazy attraction to this? When I masturbate I almost always go to the dirty pics of a girl getting a dick crammed up her butt.
I'll answer part of my own question: There's great arousal in seeing a woman's vagina spread and ready while you're in there. Other than that, why am I so focused on this?
Thanks - this is a great place, by the way! It feels very safe in here, where people can be honest and not embarrassed by anything.
BHJ
Welcome to the crowd, BHJack,
The brain is a funny organ...it can take off and go in all kinds of unexpected directions! And why not in this one? As to you being a straight man, I don't think I understand the concern. Or, are you saying YOU want to be the person who receives anal sex?
I'm just going to proceed from the notion - and your self-answered question - that you find it exciting to see women receiving anal sex.
And you know what? There's absolutely nothing odd or strange about it. As this becoming an "obsession," maybe you think of it that way because it's a new source of excitement for you.
You may just focus on this for a while..until you're no longer focused on it. And then it becomes integrated into your sexual matrix and becomes part of a juicy experience. And if you continue to focus on it, then just consider yourself an anal lover to the nth degree. Nothing wrong with it at all. Just make sure the other party is willing and able. Nothing worse than making up great phantasies in your head, only to have them crushed by someone who never travels the Hershey Highway!
Have a good, safe, condom-covered time,
the Love Goddess
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