Here's a real-life example of red flags piling on top of red flags... I saw it all coming but decided to ride along and see how far "she" would take it.  

 
Got a contact in SDM (SugarDaddyMeet), a site I am on with an unpaid account.  If you are unpaid, you can only message a POT if she messages you first.  In this case, the POT is located over 200 miles north of me (She's in Fresno, I'm in LA).  The profile says she 23, Latina, has lots of tats. The pics show a very attractive spinner, with great tits and tats, and an ass shown off in tight, slinky clothes.  She messaged me and asked to connect.  

1st Red Flag: Distance:  
I told her the distance is problematic and asked her if she ever spends time in my part of LA. She told me her mother lives near me and so she's in the area often.

 
2nd Red Flag: She asked me to contact her on WhatsApp.  
She provided her WA number, late that night.  I sent a text the following morning and left a note on SDM that I had connected. No reply on WA. But she sent a new note on SDM that "for some reason" WA keeps "taking her account down" and asked me to DM her on IG.  

 
3rd Red Flag:  Her IG had 1 post with the same pics on her SDM profile. She had 5k followers and is following 3 IG accounts. I followed her, but did not send a DM.  

 
4th Red Flag: Around 11 pm last night she sent a message through an IG DM. Here is the chat log:  
Her: Ola Mr SDM
Me: Hello (name)
Her: What u upto
Her: What ya lookin for hehe
Me: Heading to bed soon. I'm looking for casual fun. Hang out, maybe go out for dinner, and then adult times together.  
Me: How about you?  
Her: Hmmm pretty much the same tbh
Her: U ever been on OF? I just made one lol hope you don't judge me
Me: It's cool. You do what works for you, Love.  
Me: When do you plan on coming to my area?
Her: Just in a few days tbh
Her: Would it be weird if I asked u to msg me on my OF hehe

 
That was 11:56 pm. I had already gone to sleep. At 8:01 am this morning I replied:  
Me: Yes it would be weird.  

 
Two hours later:  
Her: Oops

 
Observations:  
1. The repeated use of terms like "hehe", "lol", and "tbh" came off as fake. Like someone who is NOT really a 23-year-old Latina trying to talk to a man well over 60.  
2. The obvious and clumsy attempt to get me to sign up (and pay) for her OF was just sad.  
3. I think my reply that it would be weird threw "her" off. She was probably expecting a typical simp reaction, such as agreeing or perhaps asking for a discount to join. But she was not ready for indifference and even annoyance that I am not at all interested in looking at her nude pics and vids.  

 
The lesson:  The details matter. If the small parts of the story don't add up, it's probably a fake story. Trust your Spidey Senses. As previously discussed, a SIMP would appear desperate to talk to, let alone see, a hot woman naked. An experienced SD would just laugh of the amateur attempt.  

 
I doubt she will message me again.  But time will tell.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

SDM, SA and others don't tolerate that behavior.  They are obviously trying to get OF followers and not using the site for what it's meant for.  Getting her banned is a boon to the community.