I do have some reservations. Will it feel great? Will it half kill me? I brought it up with my ATF, and she seemed really into the idea. I have a very high comfort level with her, and I told her I wouldn't even consider doing it with anyone else. Anyone have any thoughts or previous experiences to relate?

Dear corrazon,

Just make sure there's a condom and plenty of lube on that dildo...it's good to be safe. You don't want it to be like in "Airplane:" Take that finger out of your nose! You don't know where that finger's been!"

Hoping it'll be a wonderful experience,
the Love Goddess

Have her wear a latex glove and lube up a couple of fingers so she can insert one and then two to slowly and gently relax and prepare you. Also, I suggest the smallest strap on possible. And don't forget to ask her for a reach-around. :P

Seriously, thanks for the suggestions. I was thinking smaller would be better. What is a reach-around?

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is just what it sounds like. It originated in homosexual male terminology, I believe, and refers to when the "top" reaches his hand around and strokes the "bottom's" cock.

Why don't you start with a prostate massage?  Have your ATF get some latex gloves (or put her finger in a condom), lube it up REALLY well, and start with something smaller than a full-sized strap on?  Having a finger up your ass while your ATF gives you a blow job is one of the most mind-blowing sexual experiences a man can have.  Once you've had that, consider having her do you w/ the strap-on and perhaps giving you a HJ at the same time.  But before you take something big in, please get some advice about safety.  You don't want to get ruptured.

Avalon! I didn't know you rolled this way....I'd love to have you break out the latex gloves & I'm definitely ready for your reach around! Sounds like you know how to do this right

too many males think anal play is for wussies.  I hate to be the bearer of real news here, but the prostate is like a female clitoris, and sexually, that part of the male anatomy is VERY receptive to being included in the sex act.  Just ask any Tantra provider, or domme for that matter - they know how to take advantage of that little gland.

Maybe more than you want to know here, might want to just move on.

I too have had some curiosity in this area.  I have been with Tantra poviders and others who added a PM into various acts and have enjoyed it tremendously.  
I recently broached the subject of a strap-on with a lady I had an appointment with and she was not only receptive but eager.  She started very gently with a gloved finger, then a small "toy", followed by the main event, all approached slowly and with complete concern for my comfort.  Sparing you the gory details I found that it is an experience and sensation that I greatly enjoyed and will likely repeat.

And for ATL_ScareCrow, absolutely no desire for a "real" dick.  While I find I enjoy the experience with a woman I still am not in any way turned on by men, it's a totally different thing and has nothing to do with being gay or not.

I love anal sex so much I have always wanted to meet a girl that would like to give as much as recieve. I have no desire for a guy's cock only the toy of a soft female that will get so hot from fucking my ass that her nipples get rock hard and her cunt drips precious fluids for me to later lick up as I bend her over to explore her cunt and ass with my tongue.I want it and have for some time I just have had luck finding it outside the professional world. Any providers in the southeast that are willing please let me know.

how deep can you go before rupturing something? it seems that in the porno films you can drive a truck in someones ass.I'd like to try a dildo but don't want to do any damage