I had two POT first dates this weekend.  Both gave the initial feel of UTR escorts with the mention of getting a room after the date if we connected. They suggested not me! lol. I played through to see how things went.  I haven't been having much luck lately and figured what the hell.  Worst that could happen was I walk away if I didn't like the way things went.  

The first date actually went well and from the conversation I gathered that she was actually relatively new to sugar dating.  Had been in a regular relationship for 5 years and had broken up about a year ago.  A friend suggested Seeking.  She had one arrangement that lasted 6 months.  She seemed a little awkward in discussing things in person.  I think the text exchanges that gave me the UTR escort vibe was coming from that experience.  The previous guy may have treated her like an escort.  While she was cute, I suggested that we wait until the second date for BCD.  I wanted to see how that played out.  If she ghosts one me (which she has not yet, we have exchanged texts this week) then maybe she was.  We discussed boundaries regarding condoms which I have no problem with for intercourse, but she mentioned using them for oral until she got comfortable with me.  I thought this was odd. Could have been fallout from her previous SD? I am seeing her on Thursday for dinner and BCD.

Second one was similar in that she was openly saying if I panned out she wanted to get a room.  She even sent a few unsolicited sexy photos.  Got love that! lol.  However, once we met conversation got a little stilted.  She had mentioned that she was worried about her blood pressure being low as she said she nearly passed out earlier in the day after standing up too fast.  She was eager to consummate the deal, so I figured why not.  I hadn't gotten laid in a while and I wasn't sure about the other one panning out later.  I retrospect, I could have gone with out going BCD with this one.  It was quick and just unsatisfying. not to mention not worth the ppm, but oh well.  This one definitely came across as a UTR escort.

This is a good overview of the value of M&G's. I know some don't want to take the time if she indicates she's DTF right away.  But for me, those types of POT's are generally looking to harvest dollars from as many SD's as possible every week.  Now there's nothing wrong with a BnB (Bang-n-Bail), but I prefer to develop a deeper and ongoing connection.  

 
Looking at your weekend, I think you've found one of each type.  That's give you at .500 batting average in the short term (which is Major League level performance) and could be long term 1.000 if the 1st POT stays in the game.    

 
Final observation for those here that are new to the Sugar Bowl.  bassrat51 operates at an advanced level by stacking 2 M&G's in one weekend.  That takes a significant amount of planning and logistics skills to pull off.  He presumably had to book at different restaurants and hotels, as well as carefully budget for the best and worst scenarios, not to mention ensure his in-pocket cash was adequate. All this while managing his own personal life's schedule and presumably some level of OpSec regarding his family, friends and perhaps a SO.  

 
Finding UTR escorts on Seeking, and even more so on other sites like SDM is inevitable.  And there's nothing wrong with that. Even hookers like to have fun dates. We each can decide our interest in them.  No wrong answers here. It's YTMD (Your Time, Money, Dick) so use it well.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

The Thursday night dinner & BCD was the better choice. I think putting it off until Thursday rather than right after the initial meet was the right call. Looking forward to my next encounter with her.