...even if it now requires more times at bat to score one! I've encountered all the bad behavior on SA that others have reported, things like picture sellers, online only girls, unrealistic expectations, favorites from Venezuela, Asian "rich uncle" scammers, and all the rest of it.  And I can see why this could discourage you from continuing the quest.  But the gems are still out there, even if you have to dig through more dirt to find one!

Yesterday I had my first BCD with one of those gems.  An amazingly beautiful, very tall, slim 29yo who looks like a model but is educated and is working in a medical technical job.  Our arrangement has followed the classic successful pattern:  initially favoriting each other, exchanging messages on SA, moving to text, and then meeting irl at a nice restaurant for our first time.  We hit it off splendidly, were both very eager to continue, and parted company in the parking lot with a sweet kiss and an agreement to meet for a BCD playdate a week later.  

A week later was yesterday!  She met me in my RV at the prearranged time and place.  We were in each other's arms kissing and touching immediately.  She was just as eager as I was, and soon we were naked and I was in awe of her perfect body.  Just perfect!  Truly one of the best looking females I've ever had the pleasure of playing with.  We enjoyed pleasuring each other orally, the main event was fantastic.  She complemented my energy and skills several times, which, of course, I just love, especially at my age.  And after the fireworks we cuddled and talked for quite a while about many topics of mutual interest.  When she left I gave her our agreed (very reasonable) ppm amount and we agreed to meet again.  She's a keeper,  a top tier sugar baby I hope to see many times, regularly, and develop a strong relationship with.

There is no way in hell I would ever have this kind of successful encounter with a lovely young woman like her if Seeking were not available.  Decades of previous lack of success had made me very aware of my inability to make such things happen.  But on Seeking I have confidence and I have game.  And I have confidence that there are women on the site who are exactly what I want, and who want exactly what I have to offer.  So I remain very enthusiastic about Seeking, and playing in the sugar bowl. Yes, it's become more difficult.  But it's still by far the best game around!