So I’m sure it’s me, but so far what I have found (in my limited short experience in the bowl); is that I find a POT SB, we have a good back and forth chat or text. As soon as we get down to business, the three that I have had contact with all want to do short get togethers (an hour or less) for five hundred and have me host.
I have spent a bit of time in the P4P world and can find much better value. IE, In-call at three hundred, no BS. Of course in my market, I’m limited to about a dozen that I want to see and have, so I was mainly looking for some variety. Just not wanting to go broke doing it.
Anyone else finding the same or do I have a major flaw in my game plan? Have tried as young as “24” to as old as “47”.
You need to have a lot more lines in the water. Also did you counter them or give them the opportunity to lower their request?
No I just said that it was nice chatting with you, sorry for wasting your time.
Wished them well in getting what they want.
No response after that.
I thought if I didn't try and counter, they would come back with a better offer.
Thanks for the advice, I'm casting again. see what happens.
If nothing else you can use those first three as practice. A lot of guys who have been trained by hookers to NOT negotiate have no idea how to negotiate because of a lack of practice in the Hooker world.
I would suggest you try negotiating with the three girls who you've already spoken with while you get a bunch more "lines in the water" as well. Good luck. and keep plugging away. There are plenty more where the first ones came from, with patience and persistence I am sure you will find what you are looking for.
Thank you, that's a great idea about the practice. They can't eat me (damn), they can only say no.
Never thought of it that way. I have gotten used to living in the hooker world
, been fun.
What I normally say is....too much for me. Be safe. Take care.......A lot of these ladies are a bit scared and very naive. By telling them to be safe you have planted in their mind that it is a scary thing for yhem to be doing and maybe you are a nice guy that they can have fun with.
Negotiating against yourself. Only a fool does that, so I'm not surprised they didn't come back with a lower offer. Ball's in your court, IMHO.
Not sure I get your point. I get a renewed offer 80% of the time.
Offer 300 or see if they'll stay overnight for 500. Then don't end it. Tell them your offer still stands and to call you when rent is due.
really beautiful and interesting. Tell them you really want to meet them. I assume you already asked what their favorite flower and drink was right? Tell them you were really looking forward to buying the bunch of flowers and bottle of wine for them and giving them that body rub with hot oil. Talk them up, tell her what you are want to do to her romance paperback style, nothing gross, smooth, romantic, until their panties are wet, seduce them in the message.
Then tell them your budget is 300. She won't care any more and you will have your date.
Works for me anyway and I am in Vegas. I have completely quit seeing Pros.
But top. You have a boat. Chicks dig boats.
Right now I'm messaging with over 15 potential SBs in my area, even though the ones actively in my rotation are more than I can handle due to the limitations on my time, energy and money! And I've learned not to shy away from negotiating, not in the least. I offer $200, and that's usually what I wind up paying. I've had the most outrageous sums of money requested! I politely offer $200 and many of them simply say OK!