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How do you approach an SB from the real world?
hobby48 18 Reviews 1062 reads
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What do you do if you have met or she’s a girl at your local coffee shop, grocery store, Circle K, etc?  You know she’s the one you often thought about getting into her panties.  

I have had one who recognized me from when she worked for me. She’s hot and it was fun.  She just wanted way too much money per session.  Now the shoe is on the other foot, I’ve recognized her, how do I approach her at the coffee shop?  BTW, it’s a drive up shop and a 1 on 1 convo.  

Advice anyone?

herbtcat135 reads

I have met women off the site who have played in the sugar bowl, or who I thought might be interested in trying it.  Most were strippers I met in the club and a few have turned out well (though many were either infected with GPS or were not serious and were just trying to project a fantasy for my supposed benefit).
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But civilian life is a dangerous place to try to initiate a discussion. Unless you have enough time over (probably) several meetings to get her to trust you enough to even feel comfortable about her discussing past dating (and fucking) experiences, you risk a lot by brining it up:  
1. Accusations of sexual harassment
2. Getting banned from the business  
3. Pissing off her/her friends/her (potentially armed) BF, dad, brothers, etc.
4. You get the idea...  
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So subtle and slow is a possible approach. Can you casually get her to go to lunch or drinks with you? Or just get her phone and text her casually for a while to build rapport?  If you can move into a closer zone than "friendly customer" you can test the waters to see if she is open to getting help from a well-off older guy.  
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The fast path is to just ask her out and see what happens. At least you will know immediately if you have an opening.  
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But why even bother? There are thousands of profiles on the site...  
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Just fire up your web browser and start shopping.  
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Life is good
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The Cat

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hobby48119 reads

I found her on the site now too. Can I bring it up when I get
My coffee?  

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lester_prairie140 reads

I think you want to ease an SB into accepting you know about her real life identity.   Therefore I would make introductions through the site.    When you meet you could either say, "Hey I know you!"  Or let her realize she knows you.
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I think these chicks compartmentalize their lives and crossing over unexpectedly might freak them out.

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hobby48137 reads

I’ve tried. She hasn’t been on the site and hasn’t seen my advances

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ShockBoogie161 reads

Ask her out.  For coffee, drinks, dinner...whatever gets her into a place where you can have 1-on-1 conversation.  Then do you, turn on the charm, show her what a generous gentleman has to offer, and make your pitch.  She's a SB and the fact that you know it gives you the upper hand.  Depending on how things go, you can make an offer not even acknowledging that you've seen her on SA.

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JustSayMyName152 reads

I’ve done this a few times successfully. Not counting strippers, hooters girls and pros who know the game anyways, the gym has been my thing. I’ve banged college girls, personal trainers and even an Instagram model that way.  

My approach is to casually mention that I’m a sugar daddy while having normal conversation.  I let details slip about spoiling my sugar baby without acting like I’m overtly propositioning them and then it’s only a matter of time till she asks if she can be my sugar baby. One girl had a certain sneaker on which I had just purchased for a sugar baby. Another one had the app on her screen as she put down the phone right in my line of sight. A personal trainer asked what my main source of stress was and I answered, “too many sugar babies, too little time”  Some of these played out so easily it could have been script of a 90s porno.  

Also, don’t turn it into an “arrangement” unless she asks in those terms. To some girls, a trip to Vegas (to burn comps) or a career hookup is their idea of being a sugar baby, so you don’t even have to get into the whole PPM thing. Try to figure out what makes her tick and then suggest you could help out if she’s interested. Maybe ask if she has a sugar daddy if you know she’s on SA. All you have to do is make it known that you’re playing in the same pool she is and it’s game on.

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GaGambler144 reads

"Find out what a person wants and then show them how to get it"

 
I agree completely that you need to LISTEN to find out what a girls hot button is so you know which button you need to push. If you go out to dinner with a POT SB and she starts talking about how she HATES it when guys start offering her money and treating her like a hooker, the LAST thing you want to do is "offer her money and treat her like a hooker" This sounds so simple and so easy, but most guys, especially most whore mongers can't seem to figure out that not all women are wired the same and what might turn one girl on my turn off a different girl.

 
With a little prompting all women will tell you what they really want, the key is to LISTEN to what they are really saying and that's sometimes very difficult for guys intent on impressing their date on how great they are to just shut up a minute or two to find out what makes her tick.

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herbtcat129 reads

This is why, my sales team called me "Money."  They would take me (in my tech engineering role) along on a sales pitch to review product needs, tech specs, and such and just let me walk through a Q&A process with the engineering, business ops and finance leadership teams.  I would never say "our product does this...". I'd ask "how do you do this in your business today" and follow up with "what would make that better for you?"  
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And, as GaGa notes, the client would literally TELL ME how to close the deal!  
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After that I came back with a deck that (miraculously) checked off every "needs" box they had. Deal closed, my team would do the installation & integration (ahead of schedule - cause I always buffered my estimates up 35%) and that's it. Record commissions for sales, record bonuses for me and my team, and it's off to the annual President's Club for 2 weeks in a plush resort in some exotic location.  
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Works the same in the Sugar Bowl. Listen, ask clarifying questions about HER (don't boast about you), and then tell her what SHE wants to hear. You'll be balls deep and happy.  
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Life is good.  
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The Cat

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