Not sure where to post this, but why does it take so long for me to release.  I have been sexually active since 24.  I am tall with a slight build and I can maintain a erection for hours. I'm also well hung.  Seems like the ladies get off more then I do .  I'm starting to wonder if it has anything to do with being condition to allways please the woman.  I was told I was breast fed as a child. Don't know if that has anything to do with it.


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Diet, medication, general health, age. Try posting on the Erotic Highway, and give the Love Goddess as much information as you can.

Goldenlight: your early life as a breast feeder is definitely the reason why you can't ejaculate.   Suckling at the tit results in other classic symptoms, and you display all of them:  egomania, narcissism, and general lunacy.  

The good news: since you're not ejaculating, you cannot reproduce.  

regards,  --z

Dear Goldenlight,

Let's just get one thing very, very straight: having been breastfed has NOTHING to do with delayed ejaculation. Period.

However: if you have "conditioned yourself to please the woman," now is the time to STOP, or else you'll tweak your natural body rhythm completely. My simple advice is to stop thinking in those terms. Also, if you maintain an erection "for hours," maybe the ladies just play up their orgiastic responses in order to desperately try to get you off or simply speed things along?

Having erections "for hours" is not necessarily a desirable sexual response. If you're young and healthy and follow your natural body rhythm, chances are that you will ejaculate within minutes, not hours.

There are many reasons why someone does not always ejaculate at warp speed. Do a search on this board for "retarded ejaculation," and watch the search engine go. But above all, stop thinking about the ladies and start thinking about yourself - maybe this posting constitutes a beginning of just that?

And, if you're masturbating, stop that too. Don't do anything for about 15 days or so, then engage in penile-vaginal sex with a lady and let it rip naturally. No consciously holding back, no stopping when you hit the point of no return - just let go.

Report on your progress in a few weeks,
The Love Goddess

"And, if you're masturbating, stop that too. Don't do anything for about 15 days or so,"

Good God! Can somebody really go 15 days?? I'm not being funny, after three days, I'm climbing the walls.

Will Stop masturbating immediately and see what  happens..  ONce again I don't have an issue getting up..Just ejaculating.  The only way I know how to relase is through masterbating in bed or handjob.

Will report back next week.