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Re: What is it about "thrusting" during sex that I find more satisfying
CitationCJ1 6260 reads
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Humans were not designed to have sex in the missionary position, thus the very low rate of female orgasms in that position relative to for example doggy style or woman on her stomach (with her ass up slightly)

The missionary position is a very recent invention in the 3 to 5 million evolutionary phase of mankind, and probably only became somewhat common way after pair bonding became more common.

If doggy doesn't work, and you want the woman to have a real (instead of likely fake) orgasm - the women prone with her ass up - is probably the best option, where the thrusting action is still very controllable

channelguy9175 reads

than the orgasm?   And I don't mean some "animalistic behavior."   I really only like sex in missionary and embracing my woman while making long slow thrusts.  I really try hard to fight off the orgasm until I know the woman has had enough.  Hmmm, while typing that, that doesn't sound too good.

But I think you know what I mean.  Is there some caveman DNA at work here or what?  Other positions are less enjoyable for me, especially where I do not control the thrusting.  

What gives with this LG?  I am passionate for the embrace of missionary and the slow in and out motion.

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Love Goddess7346 reads

Not so strange, channelguy,

And not necessarily so evolutionary either or DNA-oriented per se. Thrusting is what gives you the friction, which provides the GOOOOOD feeling, in preparation for orgasm.

Positions are like people - varied and somewhat unique. A leg lift here, an arm there, and voilá, something nice and new that can make all the difference. Or not.

When Kinsey did his monumental research, he found that there were a couple of positions that were the most popular, with missionary among them. It is the position which is most frequently used in the United States, Japan and some South American countries. So going by this, you are merely fulfilling your cultural imperative - if such an imperative exists, LOL.

So just thrust away and be merry,
the Love Goddess

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VisitingProf6764 reads

For me I think the missionary position allows me to express more of my 'creativity' of movement. In-out, side-to-side, circular hip motions. And the lady's legs are freed to move about as well, spread apart, brought in tight, stretched out on either side of the man's head, etc.

And if one has a good mix of love music playing, where the beat is complementary to the dancing going on, all the better. I highly recommend some of the instrumental movie soundtracks.

And for the original poster, I agree about the pleasure of thrusting in missionary. It is not too intense as a doggystyle thrust can be in stimulating the underside of the penis.

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infomike8077 reads

I think that I've managed to have one or maybe two orgasms in the missionary position in my whole life. Maybe because it's too distracting to have to look at a woman's face during sex or maybe I can't get enough friction?

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Love Goddess8076 reads

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CitationCJ16261 reads

Humans were not designed to have sex in the missionary position, thus the very low rate of female orgasms in that position relative to for example doggy style or woman on her stomach (with her ass up slightly)

The missionary position is a very recent invention in the 3 to 5 million evolutionary phase of mankind, and probably only became somewhat common way after pair bonding became more common.

If doggy doesn't work, and you want the woman to have a real (instead of likely fake) orgasm - the women prone with her ass up - is probably the best option, where the thrusting action is still very controllable

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SensualJamie6346 reads

Perhaps it is the feeling of another body on you or the sounds, the passion of it all that makes you excited:)

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