treat every session as if it were the last, because you just never know.
I've have a few gals who were so fantastic in every way, that my biggest concern is that one day they won't be there - and sure enough, that's exactly what happened when one day you call their number and it's disconnected, or you never get a reply to their email, etc.
But then life can suddenly turn. One day I was in the mood to clean out the old phone numbers on my cell phone, and came across a former unicorn who ghosted on me about two years earlier. (Korean massage gal). I decided, what the hell, let me just try the number one more time. She picked up! We were together in a few days time, and saw each other regularly for about another year and a half. Then, the number went dead again. That was about ten years ago. I finally erased it just a few months ago.
But guess what? Another unicorn contacted me about two months ago after several years of ghosting. So far, it's been Platonic, except for some therapeutic massage. (Her massages are a 10.), but I always loved just being with her as she is excellent company. She has a clandestine boyfriend right now (married guy), so she is not interested in starting up that particular aspect of the relationship. But I love to set up interesting situations, and I'm going to ride this one out and see where it goes.
Beats counting flowers on the wall....