I asked her previously and she said, "it's something I fantasize about. Because it's kind of dangerous or naughty. But I understand and respect your choice."
I've been a member here for 15 years and posted some reviews. I've also been lurking on this board but don't think I have ever posted.
I've in the Sugar Bowl for four years or so with good results. Two long-term SB and several more short-term ones. I just saw a new SB yesterday after texting back and for for a week or so. We had the kind of chemistry that only happens in the Bowl.
We've been talking about another session and she told me she wants me bare. I have never done that before and don't know what to think. Should I or should I not?
She is about 30, seems to have her head on her shoulders, a good job and joined the site about three months ago. She said I am the first SD she has seen. I know, she could be making all up but I don't think she is.
If you get tested, and the results show healthy status for you both, and neither of you has had uncovered sex within the time frame needed for a new STD to show up in testing, then Bareback is reasonable to consider. You might agree to strict monogamy at that point, but of course absolute trust is required. However, you could also agree to be exclusively fluid bonded. Meaning that you and she will go uncovered with each other, and only with each other. But you are both still free to enjoy the company of others, but always covered. Again, absolute trust is required.
but what is uncommon is an SB talking about it overtly and telling you in no uncertain term that she wants you without protection. I would find that a bit off-putting.
And yes, EVERYTHING she has said up to this point I would view with a LOT of suspicion. It's not the fact that she is willing to fuck you sans condom, there are a lot of SB's who will do that. It's the fact that she is overtly talking to you about doing it without protection that I would be worried about. I think you should proceed with great caution, if at all. Something sounds "off" about this to me.
Mutual testing is only half of the mutual trust paradigm. Do you have any idea - and ideally proof - that she is on birth control?
Back ups to birth control are, as stated previously, getting a vasectomy, or buying several doses of Plan B on amazon (about $40-$60 a dose) and watching her take the med if you leave any cum or pre-cum inside her.
I'd say no unless I had a vasectomy. I get the baby daddy thing a lot from women and it's probably my biggest fear in the sugar bowl. When they're drunk they blurt out how they think I'd be a great dad and wish I weren't married.
During the session, several SB's I have met would not mention condom at all, and a few would even say: "You don't have to use condom. Just make sure you don't come inside." I just assume it was "in the heat of the moment" thing, but to say that before the session seems calculated. It is almost like she plans to get pregnant. I would tread carefully.
I asked her previously and she said, "it's something I fantasize about. Because it's kind of dangerous or naughty. But I understand and respect your choice."
This one finally got someone to knock her up and last I heard from her he is trying to hide his assets. I am all for being responsible for my actions, yet at this age I don't want more children and not shooting blanks. Think with big head and pull out and she how she reacts.
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