Since I restarted Sugaring beginning of the year, I have been edging my target age down to realize a fantasy. My recent surprising revelation, coming late at my age (late 40s), is realizing my favorite kink is DDLG (daddy dom little). I still like milfs (like my wife) but even they role play this for me over a wide range (with baby bottles, catholic school girl skirts, or professor - college student fantasies)

In the first four months, I was searching SA for a wider age of 18-40 and dating 21-34 year olds. In April I reached a milestone, breaking the 21 yo barrier and dating a 20 yo (mixed race former dancer who needed new income)…this was the first woman I’ve dated (since I left the 20s myself) who couldn’t legally drink… in addition to full service, The 20yo actually gave me the best head from a SB yet this year (bbbj-Dt with spit) at 6$ppm, even better than a 25 yo professed pro trolling on SA at 4$ (Since dropped her from rotation). I immediately switched out a 21 year old blond college grad from the rotation I was seeing at 5$.

At this point I wasn’t screening any 18 yo that interested me… Either they were too immature and couldn’t hold a conversation at all during a date, weren’t sexual enough, or their bodies didn’t interest me. Finally last month (around the time I started sugaring a 24 yo former Maxim model), the same day I did a quick video chat with a 18yo biracial (Asian- White) cutie based on her profile. I had low expectations for the chat since she was a brand spanking new profile. However the girl in front of me was not only real and a 7-8 TER hottie but she could hold a convo (albeit sweetly shy) about restaurants and current events. To show her maturity, she’d already gotten her covid shots! The subsequent M&G was a rainy day, which gave us an excuse to dry off at my place.  

Of course we moved to BCD time and it was great! Her body is not as tight as the model’s but she’s by no means chubby- I’d call it the softness of a naturally perfected teen not infected with the gym craze. Belly is tight. She has a number of piercings (no tats yet) which were sexy. She has small natural tits and is tan after the summer in Texas. Her ass and face are the main attractions. Also, I was pleased to see she had fully shaved her kitty for me!  

It was fun starting in the movie room and pretending we were watching a movie and then making out. I ate her shaved pussy out hearing her soft moans and whimpers with a horror movie playing behind me. How convenient to move directly to the bedroom from there for an intense MSOG time. The one initial downer was she begged off from giving head - so I presumed she was a novice there. (We overcame that issue later three weeks in. ) The upside surprise is that she immediately let me take her anal virginity on the first meet- first with a finger, then a plug, and finally SD junior.

Overall I’d say she’s a super keeper. Especially as she took whatever allowance number I wanted to give her.

...whatever you call them, finding an 18 yo  willing to do everything you want is indeed a dream come true for some of us.   I hope you get to keep her in play!  My most recent Unicorn candidate was an 18 yo who's screen name was Bondage Kitten!  And wow, did she ever live up to it.  She was very young, quite inexperienced, but knew she liked to be tied up and used!  I was happy to oblige.  Like yours, she was open to anal and happy with a very modest allowance.  Too bad she fell in love and moved away after only a few dates!    

Fresh out of high school when I first met her back in 2015. Her bedroom skills especially her BBBJCIM were far beyond her age, better than most of the providers I have met. Natural D-cup on a thin frame to boot. I took her to NYC on a weekend trip one time. Too bad she was very flaky so we only saw each other regularly for about six months.

… either with us or someone else.?  
Or boredom?  

Anyway, the 18 yo seems intrigued by making this like a relationship- we stay in touch when free, i romance her a little if I feel like it lol-  but without obligations.

By young I mean any girl under 24. But, especially 18 and 19 year olds.

 
I had a lovely little 19 year old SB for a while. Ready and willing any time. A former high school track star. So her ability to go at it for hours was just heavenly. Getting her wet took zero effort. And making her come was almost as easy. I remember I picked her up once and gently stroked her panties when I kissed her. She was soaking wet.  

 
I smiled at her and said “Mmm. You’re already wet.” She said, “Honey, I’m 19 years old. I’m always wet.” I only just barely restrained myself. I wanted so bad to just pull over and have uncomfortable car sex right then and there. But I held back and when we got where we were going our clothes just seemed to fly off.  

 
Sadly, she started to catch feelings for me. There came a time when I knew by the smitten little puppy eyes she made at me, along with other signs. And, even though I really didn’t want to, I cut her loose.  

 
But it was seriously awesome while it lasted.

I’m getting some now… not sure if it’s love or she’s just happy I’m not a Tinder or Bumble idiot who can’t date properly (in other words the bar was set very very low).  

Of course at that age, super fertility is a risk … we have planned for her to start birth control.  

The other issue I usually don’t deal with is how involved her family/ parents are… my girl has a curfew lol!

The smitten little puppy eyes, or as you call them, googly eyes should not be (in my opinion) the only sign.

 
If she starts wanting to spend more and more time with you, And, at the same time, says things like  

 
 “don’t worry about paying me” or  
 “let’s pretend we’re boyfriend and girlfriend”  
 “Why can’t I ever meet guys like you?”

 
The list goes on. But I think you get the point. Puppy eyes by themselves aren’t a problem. It’s when the signs that she is growing too attached become painfully obvious that you know.

 
Family and fertility issues are a pretty common problem with younger girls. Since I have had a vasectomy, I only have to worry about the family issues.

 
Be safe and have fun. Maybe not necessarily in that order.

... the more you might need to emphasize the "Daddy" part of Sugar Daddy. That's not necessarily a bad thing. But you may find that it's more important to set rules and guidelines for the relationship to ensure you both get what you want - and ONLY what you want. So yes, tech her, expose her to life experiences she wouldn't normally get as that age. But also take time to spell out boundaries and expectations. That can help prevent things like 3 am texts (or calls!), sudden appearances at your home, or being dragged into (some) of drama that 18-19 year old women all have.  

 
For me, it's been counter-intuitive that the more I set rules and limits, the happier she is. And that translates into trying even harder to please Daddy in BCD.  But eventually, 18, 19 and 20 year olds get - well - older. So call her a Unicorn or Holy Grail if you like. But with a few notable exceptions, these designations will age along with her.  

 
Enjoy the fun, ADJ - you've earned it.  

 
Speaking of notable exceptions, my Filipina Unicorn, who I met when she was 19, is now 31. And she still rocks my world every time I see here. Sadly, she works in San Francisco now, and only gets back to LA 2 or 3 times a year.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

"being dragged into (some) of drama that 18-19 year old women all have. "  It never ends.  There is no age when they aren't into drama.  There may be women less prone to drama, but they were probably that way their whole life.  

It’s a process for sure. She’s a bit of a rebel… funny because I though she was a sub in bed but she has some Dom to her, like telling me when and what the dates will be. With the two boundary settings so far, each led to “I’m so mad” first then “I thought about what you said let’s talk”. We’re in the third boundary setting right now, which is why I said in another post that I had a SB-less weekend (other one happened to be busy with kids).

Lately it’s been about curbing her flakiness. We’d already had one talk about giving daddy as much prior notice of a date as possible. This weekend she kept pushing back our regular date and then not giving me a firm time. Something about going to an 18-year old type concert. Former One Direction (yes I have to know that now) guy gone solo I think… that ties it to your point that there are 18-year old- specific drama.  Finally I had to cancel (the date not her yet lol).  

I guess the particular drama sometimes feeds the fantasy too. Yes she has to lie to her mom when she’s out. (I’ve bought the mom a present and my SB said it was from her.) Btw we’ve had calls where I interrupted her “cleaning her room” lol. Yes she can’t drink and when she did once of her own volition I was nursing a complete drunk. Yes I have to deal with the opinion of the bestie. (“He’s too old for you,”” only wants one thing”)

Best advice was set boundaries and if we can’t, move on.

Of course, you are too old for her and you want only one thing. Isn't this what sugar daddy means? What do they think? You two are going to be an item? LOL.

Wouldn't normally comment, but it does seem beyond the norms.  otoh, if you're happy...hard to make any comment!

Felt a little backhanded … but yea I’m having a blast!  Or rather I’m blasting her lol!

A “serious relationship even if it’s not official” lol.

They have to believe that fiction or otherwise they think they are whores (which they are.)

Sometimes I write shit without actually reading the post (especially if it's over 2 paragraphs  lol).
Congrats and have a great time: I'm a bit jealous!

Flakiness got to be too much.  

Even the bare BcD and low allowance wasn’t enough to make up for it.

Sorry it didn't last.  And a good move to NOT try to correct her behavior by offering additional rewards (i.e.: Allowance).  That may have worked for a short time, but would ultimately fail.  

 
It's a good reminder that no arrangement lasts forever.  So rather than lamenting the loss, celebrate that you got a go BB BCD with an 18 year old hottie 5 times. That, Sir, is a good reason to be happy.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I’m very much a glass half full guy , in work and life…

And now that I’ve broken my sound barrier, there is no urge whatsoever to push that envelope further or necessarily repeat with another 18yo in a hurry. In fact I’m still enjoying my 30 yo who turned out to be 24yo Maxim model. She was sick this week and sent me a “my throat hurts…want daaddy now!” Text. Lol.

To borrow your line, life is great!