Dear Love Goddess,

I've been hobbying for a number of years.  I'll admit to sometimes doing it to boost my ego, I am a quiet unassuming person but can be as vain as the next guy.  Anyway my concern is for one aspect of my chosen "hobby."

For whatever reason, for any provider I've ever seen, I have always saved the online pics I've found of them.  More than that, occasionally I find myself searching google to see if I can find, say, an old ad site that might have pics of them I don't already have.  

I'd like to state now that I don't print them out and hang them all over my walls.  I don't have them as screen savers or wallpaper on my laptop.  And I have NO intent to use them to harm a provider's personal life.  They just sit in a folder on my hard drive.  

Reason I'm asking all this is because I was talking to a fellow hobbyist and he made a comment in jest asking if I was "one of those loser pic collectors?"  And it got me thinking, collecting a memento of the ladies I've seen.  Isn't this a variation of what sociopaths do, ie a killer saving a victim's clothes.  

So I guess I'm wondering, is collecting these pics a harmless activity or the beginnings of a bigger problem?

Thanks

but quite another to knock off a Brink's truck.

Keep an eye on it and if you think it's going from the point of harmless fun to dangerous involvement, see someone about it.

Egads...those sandbox comments, reallynotsecure,

Talk about a put-down and jockeying for a childish position! And look what it's got you doing! Comparing yourself to a sociopathic personality who saves his victim's clothes!!!

Relaaaaax, dearie. Nothing is going to happen. I've got news for you: I've got photos of just about everyone cute that I banged - and who wanted to pose for a picture. I've got the pictures on my harddrive, in albums, in my head...and I LIKE IT. When I note the ravages of time in my own appearance, I can at least go to those pics and say, 'well, I sure had a lot of fun with guys I could never get today [unless I paid'em, LOL]!'

There is absolutely nothing wrong with having mementoes of beautiful women you enjoyed sex with. Nothing. Now, if you were calling them, pestering them or otherwise making secret plans in terms of invading their life, I'd say you've got a problem. But photos???? How many guys don't have loads of celeb or fashion models shots on their computers? I wouldn't even say that it were wrong if you masturbated while looking at those pictures. Why not? As long as you as you are not bothering anyone, it's totally fine.

Now as for that LOSER DUDE who made the nasty comment...fuhgeddabout it,

the Love Goddess